JackWagon 27 Posted Tuesday at 06:45 AM Share Posted Tuesday at 06:45 AM If you did it? If your partner did it? If strangers in videos did it? When is it hot to you? 1 Link to post
randomiser 115 Posted Tuesday at 10:32 AM Share Posted Tuesday at 10:32 AM I've never thought about it as "hot" or not. I cheated on a couple of girlfriends in the past. In both cases it was a simple combination of mood, interest and opportunity. It's also a pretty good indicator of the state of your relationship. Both of those relationships ended not long after, even though they knew nothing about the cheating. 1 Link to post
MidoriLemonade85 2,245 Posted Tuesday at 12:13 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 12:13 PM 5 hours ago, JackWagon said: If you did it? If your partner did it? If strangers in videos did it? When is it hot to you? Actually…an excellent question. In my early 20s I was a late bloomer but when I discovered sex I wanted to learn and experiment all I could. So one relationship merged into the next. There were times I was dating several people at once. I enjoyed group sex too. I have never been cheated on, as far as I know, in long term relationships, but I do understand why people do it. Long term relationships are hard and cheating is an escape. Or sometimes love and attraction happen and we tumble into circumstances. I would think it would be hot to see my husband with someone else. And perhaps he could learn about how love works for different people by seeing others for a while. Yes I think its hot in videos too. I like the forbidden romance side of it. 1 2 Link to post
MidoriLemonade85 2,245 Posted Tuesday at 12:24 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 12:24 PM 1 hour ago, randomiser said: I've never thought about it as "hot" or not. I cheated on a couple of girlfriends in the past. In both cases it was a simple combination of mood, interest and opportunity. It's also a pretty good indicator of the state of your relationship. Both of those relationships ended not long after, even though they knew nothing about the cheating. Yes, usually something is missing in the relationship. 1 1 Link to post
Maclir 1,043 Posted Tuesday at 08:02 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 08:02 PM 7 hours ago, MidoriLemonade85 said: Yes, usually something is missing in the relationship. As both a creator and cheatee, I would gave to agree. In an ideal world, there wou km d be no cheating... 2 Link to post
nutinfancy 394 Posted Tuesday at 09:11 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 09:11 PM I've never cheated on my wife physically nor she me, but mentally yes I have, and I don't know if she has. I think long term relationships sometimes get complacent and vanilla. And the rush and excitement of someone new and being listed over by someone knew is like a drug! And is Hot! But I love my wife and we have a great relationship, there isn't much that we don't talk about and we have a good sex life! But sometimes you like to know if you still got it and could turn someone else on so much so they'd be willing to chest with you! The thought does turn me on! I just don't know if I could ever physically do anything! But I do know a hard dick has no boundaries!! 1 1 Link to post
Remi 1,006 Posted Tuesday at 09:12 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 09:12 PM (edited) Not if i imagine myself being in one way or another involved in it. Others may do what they like. Having different justifications for it. I get the reasoning and the 'why' behind it. But thats not my mentality. For one because i don't get into random relationships just for the sake of it. If i do, i have to commit 100%. All or nothing. A huge reason (amongst others 🤔😀💫) why i'm not in relationships for the most part, because it has to be IT. Even if a relationship is crumbling i'd rather have a clear and honest cut than artificially keeping a relationship thats not meant to be on a breathing machine. All or nothing. And if i am commited to someone there is no way i will ever feel the desire to cheat. Not only because i could never intentionally hurt the feelings and trust of someone so close to me, even the thought of that would be the biggest turn off, but i also have to hold myself accountable when i look in the mirror. I'd have to ask myself... if i betray the most important person in my life how can i even trust myself, how am i deserving anyones trust in the future? I wouldn't. I'd hate myself. Thats why i can confidently say it won't happen. Edited Tuesday at 09:13 PM by Remi 1 1 Link to post
oliver2 4,295 Posted Wednesday at 07:37 AM Share Posted Wednesday at 07:37 AM Hot? Yes. Wise? Fair? Honest? Honourable? … uh… not so much. Excusable? Sometimes. It’s not the only way to let your partner down, maybe not even the worst, but it’s the one everyone talks and thinks about 3 Link to post
MidoriLemonade85 2,245 Posted Wednesday at 11:46 AM Share Posted Wednesday at 11:46 AM 14 hours ago, Remi said: Not if i imagine myself being in one way or another involved in it. Others may do what they like. Having different justifications for it. I get the reasoning and the 'why' behind it. But thats not my mentality. For one because i don't get into random relationships just for the sake of it. If i do, i have to commit 100%. All or nothing. A huge reason (amongst others 🤔😀💫) why i'm not in relationships for the most part, because it has to be IT. Even if a relationship is crumbling i'd rather have a clear and honest cut than artificially keeping a relationship thats not meant to be on a breathing machine. All or nothing. And if i am commited to someone there is no way i will ever feel the desire to cheat. Not only because i could never intentionally hurt the feelings and trust of someone so close to me, even the thought of that would be the biggest turn off, but i also have to hold myself accountable when i look in the mirror. I'd have to ask myself... if i betray the most important person in my life how can i even trust myself, how am i deserving anyones trust in the future? I wouldn't. I'd hate myself. Thats why i can confidently say it won't happen. You’re a good person. 💚 1 Link to post
MidoriLemonade85 2,245 Posted Wednesday at 11:59 AM Share Posted Wednesday at 11:59 AM And…following on….this is a question I’ve asked some of my friends…if you could cheat, with someone you really fancied, and you knew you could get away with it, would you do it? Even just once? It makes you really dig deep into yourself and how honest you are with yourself. The initial response is the learned one of “I love my partner and don’t want to disappoint them and lose their trust, so I would not do it.” But when you actually visualise being given the opportunity, I think more than a few generally honest, good, loving people, would dive in. Especially if your crush was keen too. It would be hard to say no and push them away. Relationships…marriages…are long. LOOOOONGGGG!!!!!! I am so sure that most married people consider it during all those years of faithfulness. Only a small percentage act on their impulse and take opportunities. But…wouldn’t it be nice? Just now and then? I have never cheated on my husband. And before PeeFans, I barely even looked at another man. But being here has shown me how many beautiful, sexy men are out there. And many have a permanent home in my mind. It’s a nice compromise. How about you? Would you? 1 1 Link to post
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