pop-a-squat 12,238 Posted November 29, 2022 Share Posted November 29, 2022 Where do you stand on public peeing, does it matter if you see others doing it too? Where do you go pee when you’re at a beach or park with no restroom, or even an outdoor concert with limited bathrooms? What about at a parade, or Fourth of July fireworks? Quote Link to post
Popular Post Chrissy89 1,195 Posted November 29, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted November 29, 2022 Interesting topic, whilst I’m not a regular outdoor go-er I’ve found myself jumping into the gents at a concert or event just to save waiting in the queue for the ladies. I usually get a few surprised looks or two when I go and wash my hands. I’d be mortified if others saw me going outside 😱 2 4 Quote Link to post
Bacardi 8,823 Posted November 29, 2022 Share Posted November 29, 2022 I always prefer to hold it until I get to a toilet (unless it's a port a potty. Then I just hold it till I get home or the next place lol). In the case of a beach, i always peed in the water. But as long as someone is peeing somewhere a little hidden I've never cared if it was outside or not. A lot of those places you listed include activities children might be present for so if someone were to duck behind a tree at the park or in an alleyway during a parade I wouldn't be bothered as long as they made an effort to hide themselves. 1 2 Quote Link to post
Popular Post MonsterKane46 876 Posted November 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted November 30, 2022 people frequently do it at concerts and stuff but most of them try to be a little discrete and go in the bushes or behind the portable toilets or something... doesn't bother me as portable toilets are disgusting and there is always a queue... although I once went to an Eminem concert with a group of friends... one of the girls wore a short (excuse the expression "slutty") dress which at the time I figured was because she wanted a bit of male attention but she later admitted (with the help of alcohol) that she wore it so she could just piss where she was standing. None of us had any idea until the end of the night. You can get away with a lot of stuff being a girl. 2 3 Quote Link to post
wettingman 429 Posted November 30, 2022 Share Posted November 30, 2022 Here in the USA it is totally illegal . You risk arrest for public urination, and indecent exposure, and in some areas land on a sex offender list. I am fine with semi- public peeing where I find a discrete place behind bushes etc. and out of the main travel area, where I won't be seen. For a male this is much easier. If and when ( this has happened) I can't hold my pee any longer , I will not whip out my dick and go. Given no other choice I will do my best to hold it , if I can't I will wet my pants. Embarrassment is better than being arrested. Also , and this is important to me, I do not want to upset anyone by making them watch me pee. I been with friends many times and I step away to relieve myself. They know full well what I am doing, they do it themselves, they just don't want to see it. 1 Quote Link to post
Popular Post steve25805 120,705 Posted November 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted November 30, 2022 If peeing outdoors I try to be discrete and avoid being seen. I recognise that real life is populated by many who do not share our fetish and would not appreciate any overtly public display. The police would be likely to be particularly unappreciative and I could get fined. So I pee in secluded back lanes or in bushes or behind walls. It is definitely a needs must kind of thing. I mean if you gotta go you gotta go, right? Wetting yourself would be way too embarrassing which in the final analysis is likely to be the only alternative to finding somewhere to go. If caught short on a beach, the easiest thing to do is go and take a dip in the sea and once out up to your waist you can just pee with no one knowing. Brazenly peeing in full public view might be the sort of thing we see others doing in our fantasies, but it rarely happens in real life unless copious amounts of alcohol are involved. In my entire life I have seen ladies peeing brazenly in public on only a tiny handful of occasions, once outside a pub and another time in the nightclub zone, for example. Which suggests alcohol was a factor. 3 2 Quote Link to post
Johnboy777 3,388 Posted December 1, 2022 Share Posted December 1, 2022 @steve25805 22 hours ago, steve25805 said: If peeing outdoors I try to be discrete and avoid being seen. I recognise that real life is populated by many who do not share our fetish and would not appreciate any overtly public display. The police would be likely to be particularly unappreciative and I could get fined. So I pee in secluded back lanes or in bushes or behind walls. It is definitely a needs must kind of thing. I mean if you gotta go you gotta go, right? Wetting yourself would be way too embarrassing which in the final analysis is likely to be the only alternative to finding somewhere to go. When I choose to relieve myself outside it is almost always out of necessity. I have a small bladder, and when I feel the need to pee, I usually can find someplace out of public view, an alley, bushes, the wall of an abandoned building, etc. Only on a few occasions have I peed not out of necessity, but only for the pleasure of doing it. And only once was I seen by another person, and was able to finish pissing before he/she could approach me. 1 Quote Link to post
AWN_84 1,369 Posted December 1, 2022 Share Posted December 1, 2022 I pee outside whenever i can, i don't mind being watched, but as most ppl get uncomfortable watching me, i respect their eyes, if they don't mind either, it is a match made in heaven, i let loose everywhere 2 Quote Link to post
Maclir 905 Posted December 1, 2022 Share Posted December 1, 2022 There have been many times when I have needed to pee in public, and there were no rest rooms available. I will try to find a secluded place and be very discreet. On a beach it is easy. 1 1 Quote Link to post
GenericUsername 1,019 Posted December 1, 2022 Share Posted December 1, 2022 Yes. If there are no restrooms available, people should fully expect and accept public pissing. 2 Quote Link to post
Popular Post Ms. Tito 2,012 Posted December 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted December 2, 2022 I don't know if it is but i think it should be. 5 Quote Link to post
beachmom 1,756 Posted December 3, 2022 Share Posted December 3, 2022 Certainly, if you've got to go you've got to go, what choice is there. Also, especially for guys, even when their are restrooms near, I believe that it's often more acceptable for them to just pee in public. Examples being when lots of women are in line for portable toilets and the men would delay the lines, when women have to be inconvenienced by taking a boy or walking with a guy to the restrooms or when guys would have to track into someones house to do so. In those cases it's much more polite for them to just pee in public. 4 Quote Link to post
Peetea 138 Posted December 3, 2022 Share Posted December 3, 2022 On 11/29/2022 at 12:40 PM, Bacardi said: I always prefer to hold it until I get to a toilet (unless it's a port a potty. Then I just hold it till I get home or the next place lol). In the case of a beach, i always peed in the water. But as long as someone is peeing somewhere a little hidden I've never cared if it was outside or not. A lot of those places you listed include activities children might be present for so if someone were to duck behind a tree at the park or in an alleyway during a parade I wouldn't be bothered as long as they made an effort to hide themselves. I agree there with you concerning children. On the (nude-) beach however I don't bother going into the waves to pee, but just pee over myself laying on the warm sand. Such a naughty idea that others COULD see my pee flowing. Usually they sit just too far off to really be able to see. LET IT FLOW, is my motto on the beach! 🥰😋🍌💦💛💦💛💦💥 1 2 Quote Link to post
gldenwetgoose 20,107 Posted December 6, 2022 Share Posted December 6, 2022 There's a couple of variations on 'in public' here which I find quite fascinating. Some would interpret 'in public' as being in full view of everyone - right on the main street, in the middle of the carnival parade or whatever. And for others it's a case of finding somewhere less visible with less chance of causing offence. Time of day also plays a part I guess. In a busy daytime context whether that be at a park, a busy shopping area or a parade there's more chance of families about and a wider cross section of people, some of whom may be offended enough to alert the authorities. It's a distinction that shows up on many of the festival peeing video compilations too, with some clips in alleyways behind walls and dumpsters, and others more brazen in public areas. At night though that may be less the case, especially in nightlife areas where alcohol has lowered inhibitions and any doorway, bus shelter or bench could be fair game. I'm probably a little more on the conservative side - during a daytime if there was no bathroom nearby I'd make sure I was somewhere not easily visible, and be more relaxed at night. So in the daytime perhaps in an alleyway definitely hidden by bins, or standing with my car boot open in a car park. At night I'd still try to be fairly discrete, rather than waving my tackle about, but wouldn't bother so much about being seen going in or coming out of a shadowy place whilst zipping up. 1 1 Quote Link to post
Popular Post Alfresco 10,923 Posted December 6, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted December 6, 2022 The question of acceptability depends very much on individual viewpoint. If you ask "Do the general public think that seeing people pee in public is acceptable" then the answer is probably tending very much towards the "No" standpoint. However this would vary significantly depending on location and timing. Would a crowd at a festival find it unacceptable? Probably not. Same with late night drinkers spilling out of the pubs - would they be shocked to see a guy peeing on a bin or a woman peeing in an alley - again, probably not. But if an average person who is not a heavy drinker heads out on a rare visit to a town late at night, they would probably be shocked and appalled at what they see in the way of peeing as well as behaviour in general. If I'm answering the question from my own standpoint, then I am absolutely fine with peeing in a public place and do so regularly. I don't mind if I'm seen, but I wouldn't pee in a place that is blatantly obvious such as a high street on a Saturday afternoon. I would and do pee in places where it could be considered that I'd taken a little effort to be discrete but if someone sees me then I'm OK with it and depending on the situation, if it looks like they are enjoying the view then I might turn to give them a better view, but if they look like they are shocked or disapproving then I try to be apologetic and finish up and zip up quickly. I even would go as far as to say that if outdoor peeing opportunities present themselves then I would take them - even if I could choose to pee in a toilet. Case in point, today I needed to go to the doctors first thing in the morning to book an appointment and then later in the morning to attend the appointment. For the first visit, I didn't go to the toilet before I left the house. I got to the doctors, booked the appointment and then walked out of the back gate of the doctors into the woods behind and peed to the side of the path. Nobody was around, but it was a public path and someone could easily have appeared. When I went back to the doctors later on, I again avoided peeing before I went there and then on the way back I could easily have held it until I got home (10 mins walk max), but I turned into a footpath off the side of a road and peed there instead. I had my back to the road and there were cars going past and possibly the odd pedestrian but I was probably about 30m into the path and I doubt anyone realised what I was doing. For beaches I've peed behind beach huts, rocks, etc and I've sat on the beach and peed out of the leg of my shorts even with people fairly close by. Just don't make a show of it. For parks I have peed in the bushes and trees and have knelt on the grass and peed out of the leg of shorts. I have witnessed other people going into the bushes for a pee as well and I've also found tissues so I know that whilst it might not be "acceptable", it is something that happens and more than a few people are willing to do it. I certainly wouldn't finish my trip to the park early just so I could go home to pee. Other situations where I think far more people would consider it to be acceptable would be outdoor activities such as long distance walking, kayaking, cycling etc., when you could be away from a toilet for hours. Most participants in these activities accept that peeing in public is a necessary part of the experience - but they tend to be in places of low population and therefore being discrete is probably easier. 3 1 2 Quote Link to post
Ms. Tito 2,012 Posted December 6, 2022 Share Posted December 6, 2022 8 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said: There's a couple of variations on 'in public' here which I find quite fascinating. Some would interpret 'in public' as being in full view of everyone - right on the main street, in the middle of the carnival parade or whatever. And for others it's a case of finding somewhere less visible with less chance of causing offence. Time of day also plays a part I guess. In a busy daytime context whether that be at a park, a busy shopping area or a parade there's more chance of families about and a wider cross section of people, some of whom may be offended enough to alert the authorities. It's a distinction that shows up on many of the festival peeing video compilations too, with some clips in alleyways behind walls and dumpsters, and others more brazen in public areas. At night though that may be less the case, especially in nightlife areas where alcohol has lowered inhibitions and any doorway, bus shelter or bench could be fair game. I'm probably a little more on the conservative side - during a daytime if there was no bathroom nearby I'd make sure I was somewhere not easily visible, and be more relaxed at night. So in the daytime perhaps in an alleyway definitely hidden by bins, or standing with my car boot open in a car park. At night I'd still try to be fairly discrete, rather than waving my tackle about, but wouldn't bother so much about being seen going in or coming out of a shadowy place whilst zipping up. Yeah I'm pretty much the same way. 1 1 Quote Link to post
Johnboy777 3,388 Posted December 6, 2022 Share Posted December 6, 2022 7 minutes ago, Ms. Tito said: Yeah I'm pretty much the same way. That pretty well describes "public" pissing for a lot of us. 1 Quote Link to post
JackOfAllPees 21 Posted December 6, 2022 Share Posted December 6, 2022 (edited) On 11/29/2022 at 6:03 AM, pop-a-squat said: Where do you stand on public peeing, does it matter if you see others doing it too? Regarding watching other people pee: excited if it's a female, totally ignore if it's a man. Just like any other sexual thing. Regarding other people watching me: if they're peeing too, doesn't matter. If they aren't, I'd absolutely look for a secluded place, any is fine. On 11/29/2022 at 6:03 AM, pop-a-squat said: Where do you go pee when you’re at a beach or park with no restroom, or even an outdoor concert with limited bathrooms? Beach, pee in the sea. Park with no restroom, I just pee where I am. If there's people around, I said before what I'd do. Outdoor concert, same thing that a park. Also, I'd like to answer to the question of the thread because I interpreted it differently than the questions you made after: I'm conflicted on this, on one hand I'd love seeing more girls peeing in public, but I can't deny on the other hand that the fact that public peeing isn't socially accepted is the main reason I love it, so I don't think I'd like for it to be accepted. Edited December 6, 2022 by JackOfAllPees Quote Link to post
Alfresco 10,923 Posted December 16, 2022 Share Posted December 16, 2022 On 12/6/2022 at 4:07 PM, JackOfAllPees said: on one hand I'd love seeing more girls peeing in public, but I can't deny on the other hand that the fact that public peeing isn't socially accepted is the main reason I love it, so I don't think I'd like for it to be accepted. This is absolutely my view as well. I love that girls do pee in public and I love to see them doing it. I'd also like to see more of it, BUT if it were as socially acceptable as eating a snack or drinking a drink in the high street then we would end up with people peeing everywhere. Whilst that would be great to see for a few days, the novelty would soon wear off and then their wouldn't be the excitement and interest of spotting it as it would be too commonplace. Also, when performing the peeing, the fun is in trying to pee somewhere without being caught or the fun of peeing knowing someone is looking. If it were fully accepted then what would be the fun? Admittedly, I'm often in a place where there is nobody else about but I still pee wherever I am, as I still enjoy it, even though I know that there is no risk of anyone spotting me and therefore it isn't really naughty. I guess I just enjoy the fact that it isn't a toilet. 1 2 1 Quote Link to post
Johnboy777 3,388 Posted December 16, 2022 Share Posted December 16, 2022 28 minutes ago, Alfresco said: "Admittedly, I'm often in a place where there is nobody else about but I still pee wherever I am, as I still enjoy it, even though I know that there is no risk of anyone spotting me and therefore it isn't really naughty. I guess I just enjoy the fact that it isn't a toilet." I agree with that...it's fun peeing outdoors even if there's no chance of anybody seeing the act. It's the fun of knowing that you're pissing where it's not socially acceptable. And as long as I'm not harming anyone's personal property, I will continue to enjoy doing it. 3 Quote Link to post
Popular Post Paulypeeps 4,925 Posted December 16, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted December 16, 2022 (edited) On 11/29/2022 at 5:03 AM, pop-a-squat said: Where do you stand on public peeing, does it matter if you see others doing it too? As someone who would not use a toilet even if one was provided, I would be more than happy to see others peeing. I would probably pee discreetly myself, but I don't expect others to. On 11/29/2022 at 5:03 AM, pop-a-squat said: Where do you go pee when you’re at a beach or park with no restroom, or even an outdoor concert with limited bathrooms? Down my legs under my skirt, or I might find somewhere to sit like on a bench and wet myself there. On 11/29/2022 at 5:03 AM, pop-a-squat said: What about at a parade, or Fourth of July fireworks? I would just pee down my legs. Edited December 16, 2022 by Paulypeeps 2 1 4 Quote Link to post
Popular Post Ms. Tito 2,012 Posted December 17, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted December 17, 2022 9 hours ago, Alfresco said: This is absolutely my view as well. I love that girls do pee in public and I love to see them doing it. I'd also like to see more of it, BUT if it were as socially acceptable as eating a snack or drinking a drink in the high street then we would end up with people peeing everywhere. Whilst that would be great to see for a few days, the novelty would soon wear off and then their wouldn't be the excitement and interest of spotting it as it would be too commonplace. Also, when performing the peeing, the fun is in trying to pee somewhere without being caught or the fun of peeing knowing someone is looking. If it were fully accepted then what would be the fun? Admittedly, I'm often in a place where there is nobody else about but I still pee wherever I am, as I still enjoy it, even though I know that there is no risk of anyone spotting me and therefore it isn't really naughty. I guess I just enjoy the fact that it isn't a toilet. Frankly, I'd just like for it to be decriminalized. There is literally no reason for someone to be put on a sex offender registry for taking a piss. 5 1 Quote Link to post
Popular Post BGSB86 803 Posted December 19, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted December 19, 2022 I’m pretty comfortable with others seeing me pee. I mean, it’s not ideal, but if I really have to go at like, say a concert, I’m not waiting in those ridiculously long lines. One time me and a bunch of friends went to an outdoor concert, and we had been drinking so we all needed to pee really bad. A handful (including me) went to go pee outside while the rest went to the porta potties. A lot of people were peeing in the woods so there was really no privacy, but I didn’t really care. One of my friends saw this and was a little nervous, so she said she was going to go to the porta potties. She came back a little while later asking me to go with her back to the woods because she said she couldn’t wait for the long line. 2 5 Quote Link to post
beachmom 1,756 Posted December 21, 2022 Share Posted December 21, 2022 On 12/16/2022 at 9:39 PM, Ms. Tito said: Frankly, I'd just like for it to be decriminalized. There is literally no reason for someone to be put on a sex offender registry for taking a piss. I don't think there are but a few states left that do so, in most places it's just a public nuisance thing and in many cites it's not even chargeable. When you get out into places like National Parks and campgrounds it's expected. Around here the parks policy for rafters and beach goers is "dilution is the solution" saying it's preferable to urinate into the water as opposed to doing so in the vegetation along the river. 1 3 Quote Link to post
WetMart 977 Posted December 21, 2022 Share Posted December 21, 2022 If there are no toilets and you are desperate to go then I can’t see a problem peeing outdoors and I’ve often pissed outside at festivals even if someone has seen me 1 Quote Link to post
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