Sex Toy Discussion

[Peenicks 853]

Anyone else see ads for this product? It's a dildo and pocket pussy(?) combo that cause one to vibrate if the other is in use, for couples who like to masturbate together. I don't have a partner and even if I did I can't imagine the cost on this. The most I can muster up funds for is a small dildo and buttplug for myself (and a bullet vibe, but that was free). Thoughts on this and on toys in general? Do you have any? Do you feel comfortable using them with your partners? Etc. 

For the record, I was also inspired by @Sophie's recent story about using a vibe with her husband. Thanks for sharing, Sophie 😊

[Sophie 23,030]

This probably isn't something I'd buy, it just doesn't interest me and my husband doesn't enjoy using male toys. I suppose it could be good for long distance relationships or something along those lines. 

As far as toys go, I have a few. I have the bullet vibrator made by Tracey Cox I mentioned in my story, it gets used a fair bit, usually in the mornings when I'm alone in bed and want a quick orgasm. I have a Lush, made by Lovense, the company pictured above. I haven't had the opportunity to use it much but the few outings it has had have been really exciting. It can be used remotely so this comes out when I want to be daring in public. Have it buzzing away inside me under my husbands control while sat at a restaurant or shopping together. Finally I have a simple vibrator by Love Honey, 7 inches, 3 speeds and 5 patterns. It doesn't get used much, there's nothing wrong with it but I much prefer the real thing. I mostly use this when I'm struggling to climax when I'm alone and I need some help pushing myself over the edge.  I'm more than happy to use any or all of these with my husband watching or even helping. I'm not a huge fan of the bigger or more expensive toys, rampant rabbits are a turn off for me although I'm sure they feel amazing and I don't like the idea of wands, especially the mains powered ones. Nothing wrong with them, just my opinion. 

Photos below! 

[LovesToWet 3,408]

Here's my sex toy, it probably gets used too much lol

 

Edited October 24, 2022 by LovesToWet

[Bacardi 9,103]

I used to have a lot of vibrators but lost them during my move last year. I miss them a lot, buy there was nothing real special about them. Just toys from spencers in my ex's favorite colors 🙄 i never put them inside of me because I was never comfortable with that; I only ever used them on my clit. It was a lot of fun lol.

I'd buy more but I'm too shy. I'm scared my husband is gonna ask to see it in action and I don't like people watching me masturbate lol. Have just been squeezing my thighs together to get off like I normally do. 

If I were to buy another one, I'd pay a little extra to get something durable. I have had my eyes on the rose toy but not sure which one I should get. The one that sucks on your clit sounds scary to me 🤣 so I guess I'd go for the tongue one 👅 

[Kupar 12,355]

I agree with @Sophie that this would probably be of most interest to those in a long-distance relationship, and I can imagine it being fun in that scenario, but it wouldn't suit K and me.

I have a remote-control (local remote, not app-based) vibrating butt plug that I haven't used for a long time. Don't know why - it was good fun to give K the control and go out somewhere. She'd hand me the remote control of the equivalent toy she has that fits in her knickers: let the vibrator wars commence! I also have a stainless steel butt plug, and a masturbator / penis sleeve for the big mains-powered Doxy wand that K has (and which, when it is used at all, is only *ever* used on the lowest power setting!).

As well as the remote-control one, K also has another 5 or 6 vibes (don't judge!), but the three that get used the most (often two together) are the simplest - a small single-speed clit bullet, a much more nicely shaped multi-speed, multi-pattern rechargeable waterproof one; a slim, slightly curved, knobbly insertable one; and a bright pink thing with ears on the top (not a rabbit) so the ears can tease more of the clit at once.

Vibrators are a big part of our sex life - she uses them alone, and I *love* to watch her (when she lets me); we'll use them before and during PiV sex or to complement cunnilingus ... K didn't discover the pleasure of the vibe until a few years ago and I suspect she's making up for lost time!

[MonsterKane46 881]

On 10/25/2022 at 6:19 AM, Bacardi said:

I used to have a lot of vibrators but lost them during my move last year. I miss them a lot, buy there was nothing real special about them. Just toys from spencers in my ex's favorite colors 🙄 i never put them inside of me because I was never comfortable with that; I only ever used them on my clit. It was a lot of fun lol.

I'd buy more but I'm too shy. I'm scared my husband is gonna ask to see it in action and I don't like people watching me masturbate lol. Have just been squeezing my thighs together to get off like I normally do. 

If I were to buy another one, I'd pay a little extra to get something durable. I have had my eyes on the rose toy but not sure which one I should get. The one that sucks on your clit sounds scary to me 🤣 so I guess I'd go for the tongue one 👅 

Watchung your significant other isn't for everyone but I did try it once with an ex (we watched each other on camera) and we found we both enjoyed it... 9 orgasms between us in total... of course I was a hell of a lot younger then and could go more than once lol

[Kupar 12,355]

37 minutes ago, MonsterKane46 said:

9 orgasms between us in total... of course I was a hell of a lot younger then and could go more than once lol

Impressive ... and wonderful!

[Bacardi 9,103]

54 minutes ago, MonsterKane46 said:

Watchung your significant other isn't for everyone but I did try it once with an ex (we watched each other on camera) and we found we both enjoyed it... 9 orgasms between us in total... of course I was a hell of a lot younger then and could go more than once lol

Sounds like you had fun! I am just a private person. Stuff like that isn't for me.

[bungholio69 273]

In discussion of sex toys. 

a flesh light would be nice to use but I’ve used my hand basically 90% of the time when I masturbate and my hand is probably easier to clean up then something like a fleshlight. 
 

if I were to have a fleshlight then I would only use it on special occasions. 

[Peewee123 1,111]

I have quite a few sex toys and enjoy them! I prefer clit ones rather than anything that inserts

[MaxWasTaken 514]

You might know from other threads that i never had sex because i have a mix of bad taste and terrible luck in relationships. But thats the reason why i don't use a fleshlight ore something like that. I'll stick with basic masturbation because i don't want to ruin the excitement of doing something else with my penis (sex/masturbation wise). I know that sounds probably pretty stupid but I'm weird that way. If i would be honest with me than i would probably realise that im putting sex on a too high pedestal.

That beeing said i do like toys because they change things up and its always fun to experiment. I own some butt plugs, an anal vibrator/butt blug, some beads and a dildo. 

The whole anal thing started as a teenager when i found it weird that many men expected/wanted girls to receive anal sex while they would never consider it. I was also super curious how masturbation might feel to a girl. 

And i will probably get more stuff when i find other fun things to try.