I may leave the site soon

[peeingone 2,592]

Hi I want to tell people on the site that I may leave the site soon. I still haven't decided if I want to leave but I might. This site is pretty nice and I have so far liked it a lot and also have enjoyed interacting with many people here over the years. But I am personally suffering a lot and I am too sad and often feel like maybe I should take a break from some things. 

I often feel like I am very unappreciated in this world and that makes me very upset and I have other issues in my life too that cause me a lot of misery. So I may not visit the site and or interact with people as much as I used to or I might even get my account here deleted but I will take some time to make my decision regarding this. 

I have met decent amount of awesome people here and I really like that especially since I have gotten a chance to interact with people who have same fetish as me. I also like interacting with people here on non pee related things. 

But I feel like something is really is missing in my life or maybe a couple of things are missing in my life. And no matter how great an online site it still cannot satisfy certain needs you have in life. 

I think we humans should try to understand that a lot of people are fighting so many battles and many of them are not known to many people. Just because a person seems normally happy in life doesn't mean that they actually are. 

[gldenwetgoose 17,252]

Hi @peeingone - sorry to hear all of that.   If you do in the end decide to leave, I'd suggest keeping your account open and that way you can always pop back in occasionally or more often as you choose.   Asking for account closure is a final and non-reversible step.

Many, many of us do experience the same feelings as you've described. You're definitely not alone there.  And as you say, here you've got a community of people who understand this kink and can talk to you about it without shame or consequences.   Even if it's rare you need that, the option is still there.  I don't know what other plans you may have in your real life, but we wish you every success with them.  Genuinely all the very best, whether you're here and we can celebrate them with you or not and forging a path ahead.

Final point is you're absolutely right - the 'happiest' people in life can often be those who need the help the most, the apparently strongest can often be those who just want someone to give them a hug without having to ask for it.  I'm hoping others are going to see this too.  You have a much bigger network here than you imagine. 

[Kupar 9,464]

I second what Goose has said. People are complex, and while I don't know your circumstances, my heart goes out to you. I hope you find a way through your problems, and you have my best wishes. Take care, and do what you need to do ❤️

[MaxWasTaken 474]

First of all let me say that you are not the only one who felt/is feeling/will be feeling this way. I basically want to say that it is normal to feel down about things like this and that (in my experience) things will get better with time. The first time i felt that way i made the conscious choice to meet my real life friends more in person, which helped me alot. When the feeling came back, while i had no job during the corona lock down i had no easy fix. There are more people than you think who experienced similar stuff. Don't lose hope 😄

More on topic of the thread: My interest in the fetish varies in intensity and my interest in sexual topics varies vastly dependig on my mood or living situation. Currently im only browsing this page casually because im not in a mindset where i have much interest in peefans topics. But i would never delete my account. People know you here. They will be happy when you return in a few months/years and you will be able to catch up. Take it from someone who deleted his accounts way to often. You loose a part of your online identity when you delete something like this and you will miss it one day. Maybe you only use your account in 2 years to check up on the people you followed on this site but it will make you happy :D. There is no harm in keeping an inactive account.

 

 

Edited September 6, 2022 by MaxWasTaken

[Takashi96 656]

These are unprecedented completely batshit times. And it's totally normal to feel anything but normal. In fact, all of those feelings you've described are what I am presently experiencing as well.

That being said, take a break and collect yourself. Do whatever you need to do to stabilize your well being. However, I would highly recommend leaving your account open. The reason being, if you ever feel the random urge to pop back in for a minute then you won't have to bother setting up a new account. I know when my depression is all over the place, something as simple as setting up an account can seem like a herculean effort. With your account kept open there will always be a friend here on standby. And sometimes even a quick dose of kind words can do wonders for your soul. 

Give yourself permission to be a mess. Nobody's going to judge you for not being who or what or how you expect yourself to be. 

[Eliminature 4,995]

"I think we humans should try to understand that a lot of people are fighting so many battles and many of them are not known to many people. Just because a person seems normally happy in life doesn't mean that they actually are."

Couldn't agree more with this. It's a recurring theme in life. To quote Blue Öyster Cult, we're all Veterans of the Psychic Wars. 

Taking a break from social media and the internet generally is a good thing for both mental and physical health. I'd say you're doing the right thing, though I echo what Goose says: don't close the door completely. If you do decide to return at some point in the future, you would be welcomed back. 

For now, love and best wishes. xx

[Alfresco 9,418]

9 hours ago, peeingone said:

Hi I want to tell people on the site that I may leave the site soon. I still haven't decided if I want to leave but I might. This site is pretty nice and I have so far liked it a lot and also have enjoyed interacting with many people here over the years. But I am personally suffering a lot and I am too sad and often feel like maybe I should take a break from some things. 

I often feel like I am very unappreciated in this world and that makes me very upset and I have other issues in my life too that cause me a lot of misery. So I may not visit the site and or interact with people as much as I used to or I might even get my account here deleted but I will take some time to make my decision regarding this. 

I have met decent amount of awesome people here and I really like that especially since I have gotten a chance to interact with people who have same fetish as me. I also like interacting with people here on non pee related things. 

But I feel like something is really is missing in my life or maybe a couple of things are missing in my life. And no matter how great an online site it still cannot satisfy certain needs you have in life. 

I think we humans should try to understand that a lot of people are fighting so many battles and many of them are not known to many people. Just because a person seems normally happy in life doesn't mean that they actually are. 

@peeingone, Sorry to hear that you are thinking of leaving.   I agree with the other respondents and also thought I'd add that whilst you could never expect this online site to fulfil all your needs in real life, it is a great forum where you can choose to share and discuss this area of your life with others in the knowledge that you are not alone in your pee interests.   You may not feel appreciated in the World and I don't know which areas of appreciation that means for you, but there are a lot of supportive people here and whilst there are also a lot of people who don't contribute or even provide feedback on contributions of others, that doesn't mean that they don't appreciate the input, but are often just too lazy to click the like button or interact.  Some people are very much in it for what they can get out of it.  Others, like yourself are happy to contribute, but I find that contributions have to be done because you want to share and help others rather than because you expect to get anything back.  It is sad that people don't respond, but it is a fact.

Having a break from any aspect of your life is often a good thing, be that online or real world.   Taking a break will give you time to catch your thoughts and decide where you want to be.   I would agree with others that you would be better to keep your account though as you never know when you might just want to dip in.   The only reason that I would ever suggest deleting an account would be if you were finding the environment toxic and that it was affecting you mentally.  I really hope that this is not the case for anyone with this forum.   

What ever you decide to do, I wish you well, but hopefully we'll see you around at some point.

[peeingone 2,592]

Thank you for all of the people that replied to me I really appreciate it. And I also really appreciate the kind words of people. Well this site is a great place to talk about a lot of things especially things related to pee. I like being here and still am in the process of making my mind up. But all the pain and hardships of life can definitely take a toll on you over time and it make you lose interest in a lot of things too. 

But I hope things get better for me as well as others struggling here and else where. 

I still do get some attention in life these days including in the real world but I don't get the same attention I that got when I was younger and things were different back then. I still am young and in my early 30's but I am not as young as I once was. 

Edited September 6, 2022 by peeingone

[weteric 1,068]

@peeingone I for one hope you decide to stay. Life can be pretty tough. But having one place you know you'll be accepted, that can be special. Maybe take a break without deleting your account. Up to you, whatever you decide, I hope you'll be OK. Take care

[Johnboy777 1,823]

Without reading all of the replies to your original post, with the exception  of your post and the reply from gldenwetgoose, I can only repeat what gldenwetgoose said, "Final point is you're absolutely right - the 'happiest' people in life can often be those who need the help the most, the apparently strongest can often be those who just want someone to give them a hug without having to ask for it.  I'm hoping others are going to see this too.  You have a much bigger network here than you imagine."

I have only been a member since August 4th of this year, and I  already feel  like a member of this great family. I have always felt like my posts were welcomed, even if I didn't always get a response, or the response was different than I  expected.  That happens in families. Peeingone, I sincerely hope that things work out for you, and remember, the "family" members in this group are here to support you, and we hope you retain your membership even if you don't remain active. When things have improved - and they will - I will look forward to reading each and every one of your posts. Take care of yourself, try to remain as happy as possible, and most of all, happy 💛 peeing. We ❤ you❣

[steve25805 100,771]

On 9/6/2022 at 7:14 AM, peeingone said:

Hi I want to tell people on the site that I may leave the site soon. I still haven't decided if I want to leave but I might. This site is pretty nice and I have so far liked it a lot and also have enjoyed interacting with many people here over the years. But I am personally suffering a lot and I am too sad and often feel like maybe I should take a break from some things. 

I often feel like I am very unappreciated in this world and that makes me very upset and I have other issues in my life too that cause me a lot of misery. So I may not visit the site and or interact with people as much as I used to or I might even get my account here deleted but I will take some time to make my decision regarding this. 

I have met decent amount of awesome people here and I really like that especially since I have gotten a chance to interact with people who have same fetish as me. I also like interacting with people here on non pee related things. 

But I feel like something is really is missing in my life or maybe a couple of things are missing in my life. And no matter how great an online site it still cannot satisfy certain needs you have in life. 

I think we humans should try to understand that a lot of people are fighting so many battles and many of them are not known to many people. Just because a person seems normally happy in life doesn't mean that they actually are. 

I have been struggling recently too and toyed with the idea of leaving, feeling insecure and unappreciated everywhere not just here. I have been retreating into my shell and not wanting to interact much feeling no confidence in my social standing anywhere. 

But like you a lot of my issues reflect real life stuff and it impacts upon how I am thinking. 

I do hope that whatever battles you are facing in real life that things can and will get better for you. One thing I would definitely advise against is having your account deleted. If you need to leave for whatever personal reasons you can log out and not come here anymore, but if your account still exists you always have the option of returning if in a few months or even years if you feel better.

Burning your bridges by account deletion might just contribute to your feelings of sadness.

Even thinking about having my account deleted makes me feel sad.