bungholio69 273 Posted May 30, 2022 Share Posted May 30, 2022 Man, like on some nights I wish I had someone to snuggle with. Like I wouldn’t mind to have someone around my age to cuddle up against me right now. Like I don’t mind if the person I’m cuddling with is a guy or girl or any other gender, all it really matters is that we’re both getting physical affection. Does anyone feel like this as well sometimes? 1 Quote Link to post
oliver2 3,855 Posted May 30, 2022 Share Posted May 30, 2022 Yeah, definitely. If you’re horny you can get yourself off, but someone friendly to snuggle up to in bed’s harder to substitute for. 1 Quote Link to post
Bacardi 8,830 Posted May 30, 2022 Share Posted May 30, 2022 I can tolerate cuddles for only so long because I tend to overheat easily and don't like the feeling of someone else's sweaty body on mine. But, I agree. Sometimes cuddles are just in the cards and it's nice to be held or hold someone you care about. There is a long list of people on here I would do anything to hold platonically lol. 2 2 Quote Link to post
oliver2 3,855 Posted May 30, 2022 Share Posted May 30, 2022 32 minutes ago, Bacardi said: There is a long list of people on here I would do anything to hold platonically lol. How long would that stay platonic? 😉 Quote Link to post
Bacardi 8,830 Posted May 30, 2022 Share Posted May 30, 2022 3 minutes ago, oliver2 said: How long would that stay platonic? 😉 I dont really know. I guess until one of them and I agreed to have sex lol. 2 Quote Link to post
oliver2 3,855 Posted May 30, 2022 Share Posted May 30, 2022 Just now, Bacardi said: I dont really know. I guess until one of them and I agreed to have sex lol. Starts off as dry humping, until someone gets hard or wet. Or both… Quote Link to post
Popular Post Sophie 22,727 Posted May 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 30, 2022 I love cuddling, love love love it. Me and my husband often have sex, will pee for each other and who knows what else but one of my favourite things is snuggling up on the sofa, cuddling into each other and just enjoying each others company. I feel safe, warm and comfortable. 1 3 3 Quote Link to post
Popular Post Kupar 12,147 Posted May 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted May 30, 2022 (edited) I agree that cuddles are massively important. When K and I went through a rocky patch, it was the simplest signs of physical affection - like cuddles - that I missed the most. And the cuddle last thing before sleep, or even better, on waking up in the morning are extra special. But I'll take them any time 🙂 Edited May 30, 2022 by Kupar Typo 1 3 1 Quote Link to post
bungholio69 273 Posted May 30, 2022 Author Share Posted May 30, 2022 1 hour ago, Kupar said: I agree that cuddles are massively important. When K and I went through a rock patch, it was the simplest signs of physical affection - like cuddles - that I missed the most. And the cuddle last thing before sleep, or even better,, on waking up in the morning are extra special. But I'll take them any time 🙂 Man I can imagine waking up to someone in my arms on a cold winter morning. I imagine it feels good. 2 Quote Link to post
pguy2981 926 Posted May 30, 2022 Share Posted May 30, 2022 5 hours ago, Bacardi said: I dont really know. I guess until one of them and I agreed to have sex lol. I like platonic cuddles but if someone even gave a hint I would cave almost immediately. 1 Quote Link to post
Bacardi 8,830 Posted May 30, 2022 Share Posted May 30, 2022 Me: falling asleep, allowing my arm to fall gently down your body. @pguy2981: okay, you've convinced me. Let's fuck. How can I say no, too 😏 1 Quote Link to post
pguy2981 926 Posted May 30, 2022 Share Posted May 30, 2022 1 hour ago, Bacardi said: Me: falling asleep, allowing my arm to fall gently down your body. @pguy2981: okay, you've convinced me. Let's fuck. How can I say no, too 😏 Laying your arm on me!? Well next time just take off your clothes and ride me why don't ya! 2 Quote Link to post
Bacardi 8,830 Posted May 31, 2022 Share Posted May 31, 2022 3 hours ago, pguy2981 said: Laying your arm on me!? Well next time just take off your clothes and ride me why don't ya! Why do I imagine you are also the awkward yawn/arm around the shoulder guy too? 🤣🤣 Quote Link to post
pguy2981 926 Posted May 31, 2022 Share Posted May 31, 2022 4 hours ago, Bacardi said: Why do I imagine you are also the awkward yawn/arm around the shoulder guy too? 🤣🤣 That is a correct assumption, which is why I never attempt this ever. 1 Quote Link to post
steamlover6 713 Posted May 31, 2022 Share Posted May 31, 2022 18 hours ago, Sophie said: I love cuddling, love love love it. Me and my husband often have sex, will pee for each other and who knows what else but one of my favourite things is snuggling up on the sofa, cuddling into each other and just enjoying each others company. I feel safe, warm and comfortable. Sophie, I loved reading those words, it's so true and I am with you every step of the way. Even in later years if you have been faithful and loyal to each other those joys still remain, probably even stronger.... so stay with him for ever! 1 Quote Link to post
bungholio69 273 Posted May 31, 2022 Author Share Posted May 31, 2022 On 5/30/2022 at 11:26 AM, Sophie said: I love cuddling, love love love it. Me and my husband often have sex, will pee for each other and who knows what else but one of my favourite things is snuggling up on the sofa, cuddling into each other and just enjoying each others company. I feel safe, warm and comfortable. Do you and your husband have a favorite cuddling position? Quote Link to post
Sophie 22,727 Posted May 31, 2022 Share Posted May 31, 2022 Just now, bungholio69 said: Do you and your husband have a favorite cuddling position? It depends on where we are and what we are doing. On the sofa watching a movie or something? Like this - We do something similar in bed. If we are sleeping we usually cuddle in spoons, with me being the little spoon and his arm around me. But if we are awake, watching something in bed or just talking it is more like this 3 Quote Link to post
bungholio69 273 Posted May 31, 2022 Author Share Posted May 31, 2022 2 minutes ago, Sophie said: It depends on where we are and what we are doing. On the sofa watching a movie or something? Like this - We do something similar in bed. If we are sleeping we usually cuddle in spoons, with me being the little spoon and his arm around me. But if we are awake, watching something in bed or just talking it is more like this That sounds lovely, I can imagine how good it feels. Quote Link to post
steve25805 120,712 Posted May 31, 2022 Share Posted May 31, 2022 On 5/30/2022 at 12:48 PM, oliver2 said: Yeah, definitely. If you’re horny you can get yourself off, but someone friendly to snuggle up to in bed’s harder to substitute for. These days I don't really miss hugs and cuddles, and tend to get them from time to time anyway in a wholly platonic sense from female friends. But when younger, during the gaps between relationships I often missed such things. As you say, it wasn't the sex I missed. You can always get yourself off. It was the physical intimacy of a good cuddle. Sometimes I would hug the pillow when drifting to sleep. 1 Quote Link to post
Kupar 12,147 Posted May 31, 2022 Share Posted May 31, 2022 1 hour ago, steve25805 said: Sometimes I would hug the pillow when drifting to sleep. I still do @steve25805 as K and I don't tend to sleep in the same bed these days. 1 Quote Link to post
bungholio69 273 Posted May 31, 2022 Author Share Posted May 31, 2022 2 hours ago, steve25805 said: Sometimes I would hug the pillow when drifting to sleep. I definitely cuddle with a pillow like almost every night and also on some nights during the colder seasons I would stuff a heating pad into my pillow so that whenever I’m cuddling with it, it would stimulate human body warmth. 2 Quote Link to post
bungholio69 273 Posted June 5, 2022 Author Share Posted June 5, 2022 Besides cuddling. How do you guys feel about lap sitting and hand holding in a platonic sense? Quote Link to post
Kupar 12,147 Posted June 5, 2022 Share Posted June 5, 2022 8 minutes ago, bungholio69 said: Besides cuddling. How do you guys feel about lap sitting and hand holding in a platonic sense? I love holding hands and having someone sit on my lap. But in both cases I would probably expect it to be my wife doing those things. It's quite possible that I'd have someone else sitting on my lap platonically at a party, but curiously, not holding hands with an adult not my wife (unless it was a child or an older family member). One thing that's definitely OK platonically for me is a big hug. I'm quite a huggy person. And I have kissed platonically too - sometimes even been take by surprise when female friends have kissed me on the lips. I am assuming all is platonic ... it certainly has been from my perspective. 1 1 Quote Link to post
Bacardi 8,830 Posted June 5, 2022 Share Posted June 5, 2022 15 minutes ago, bungholio69 said: Besides cuddling. How do you guys feel about lap sitting and hand holding in a platonic sense? This is a whole different game for me. I cant usually sit on someone's lap and it be platonic lol. To me it's too much of a turn on. I start grinding, they let their hands roam. Then we're fucking in a flash. 1 1 1 Quote Link to post
bungholio69 273 Posted June 5, 2022 Author Share Posted June 5, 2022 3 hours ago, Kupar said: I love holding hands and having someone sit on my lap. But in both cases I would probably expect it to be my wife doing those things. It's quite possible that I'd have someone else sitting on my lap platonically at a party, but curiously, not holding hands with an adult not my wife (unless it was a child or an older family member). One thing that's definitely OK platonically for me is a big hug. I'm quite a huggy person. And I have kissed platonically too - sometimes even been take by surprise when female friends have kissed me on the lips. I am assuming all is platonic ... it certainly has been from my perspective. I love giving hugs, especially big hugs and comforting hugs. Quote Link to post
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