Penis size

[Loller 371]

Hi everybody,

Guys: What size is your penis and are you happy with it? Have you gotten any comments on your size (sexual partners, locker rooms, urinals etc.)?

Girls: Does size matter? What is a good size? When is a penis too small? Any memorable experiences regarding a partner's size?

 

Myself, I am about 6 inches long and my penis circumference is 4.8 inches. Perfectly happy with the length (a bit longer than average) but I sometimes feel like my penis is sort of thin. What do you think? My GF loves it and tells me the size is sort of big. I'm definitely a grower though (small flaccid) and locker rooms etc. can be sort of embarrassing at times. But overall, I think the size is okay.

Edited May 12, 2022 by Loller

[LovesToWet 3,398]

Not happy about my size as I was picked on as a kid and got told it was small and that's stuck with me ever since. I'm a grower too so small when soft, as such I know where you're coming from. I'm probably around 6in in length, no idea how wide as I've never measured it like that.

I have had some nice comments on here from photos I've posted (the right camera angel helps lol) which does help with confidence.

Edited May 12, 2022 by LovesToWet

[Loller 371]

2 minutes ago, LovesToWet said:

Not happy about my size as I was picked on as a kid and got told it was small and that's stuck with me ever since. I'm a grower too so small when soft, as such I know where you're coming from. I'm probably around 6in in length, no idea how wide as I've never measured it like that.

I have had some nice comments on here from photos I've posted (the right camera angel helps lol) which does help with confidence.

6 inches is definitely not small, it's longer than average. I'm around 6 inches too and my girlfriend tells me she loves how long my cock is.

But I definitely understand that a lot of average and even above average guys feel small. Small penises are constantly made fun of in films, TV etc. and it makes it seem like a man's worth is based on his penis size. The cruel thing is that nobody can decide how big their penis is and then they get made fun of for their size which they have absolutely no control over. I've definitely struggled with confidence issues regarding my size, mostly the girth.

[LovesToWet 3,398]

22 minutes ago, Loller said:

6 inches is definitely not small, it's longer than average. I'm around 6 inches too and my girlfriend tells me she loves how long my cock is.

But I definitely understand that a lot of average and even above average guys feel small. Small penises are constantly made fun of in films, TV etc. and it makes it seem like a man's worth is based on his penis size. The cruel thing is that nobody can decide how big their penis is and then they get made fun of for their size which they have absolutely no control over. I've definitely struggled with confidence issues regarding my size, mostly the girth.

Women have the same issues with body/boob size. We can't help what we've been given and have to live with it but once someone has put doubt in your head, it's very difficult to overcome that.

I've no idea what the average size is

[Hamster245 518]

Flacid I'm not huge, but it definitely grows when erect. 6.5 to 7 inches in length and very thick in girth. 

My last partner called him Goliath and pretty much reached orgasm on penetration each time. 

Edited May 12, 2022 by Hamster245

[Loller 371]

2 hours ago, LovesToWet said:

Women have the same issues with body/boob size. We can't help what we've been given and have to live with it but once someone has put doubt in your head, it's very difficult to overcome that.

I've no idea what the average size is

I feel like penis size issues are so much different from women's body or boob size issues. I'm not saying they are any less troublesome issues, but body or boob size doesn't have an effect on sex like penis size does. And there really isn't the type of thinking about women's breasts that bigger is more feminine but there definitely is an idea that a bigger penis is more masculine and that a small penis makes you less masculine overall or makes you "a loser" or whatever.

The average penis length is around 5.2 - 5.5 inches or so. The average girth (circumference) is around 4.6 - 4.7 inches. So, 6 inches is nicely above the average.

 

27 minutes ago, Hamster245 said:

Flacid I'm not huge, but it definitely grows when erect. 6.5 to 7 inches in length and very thick in girth. 

My last partner called him Goliath and pretty much reached orgasm on penetration each time. 

Nice! I've never made my girlfriend orgasm with penetration, but then again, not all women can orgasm from penetration no matter what size it is. My penis curves upwards so that should help with giving more pleasure in penetration, I've heard.

[TMN_Femboi 736]

 My pp is 20 cm (7.87 inches) when erect and 7 cm (2.76 inches) when flaccid.

I have gotten a lot of comments about the flaccid size in locker rooms after school sport unfortunately 😿

Both my boyfriends have commented on my erect size multiple times (while my gf never mentioned it once), but it is not too important to me anyways. I don't plan on using it for penetration often, so while it is nice to fool around with, it doesn't matter in the end.

While he never measured the exact size, my last boyfriend's cock was significantly smaller than mine, but I never made a big deal out of it, apart from calling it 'cute' a lot. I am fine with any length, I would even be fine servicing an half an inch dick, in the end there is only one aspect I care about and that is foreskin. Every dick is better with foreskin, regardless of it's size.

Also, if you ever wanna try anal, then having a small dick is better. Idk about others, but 6 inches circumference is the upper limit of what feels good for me without any previous stretching nor lube, so anything above that would be more of an annoyance.

14 minutes ago, Loller said:

there definitely is an idea that a bigger penis is more masculine and that a small penis makes you less masculine overall or makes you "a loser" or whatever.

Go watch some Japanese porn and any worries about a correlation of penis size and gender stereotypes will disappear 😜

[Bacardi 9,019]

My ex had a ten inch penis and it did absolutely nothing for me lol. Just hurt me going in and coming out because he wasn't all that good at sex and insisted he couldn't use lube or condoms. 

Current partner is about 9 in. It's okay. I'm not really one to enjoy traditional penis-in-vagina sex so I put up with it when he wants it and just wait for the next time he wants to use his mouth 😝 

So, IMO, no, size doesn't matter. And even if it did there is no reason to be shamed or feel shameful about having a smaller dick. I love all men no matter what size they are! There are other ways to turn us girls on and make us cum than by just using your dick. If you can get creative with sex then you are my hero no matter what size you are!

[LovesToWet 3,398]

14 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

My ex had a ten inch penis and it did absolutely nothing for me lol. Just hurt me going in and coming out because he wasn't all that good at sex and insisted he couldn't use lube or condoms. 

Current partner is about 9 in. It's okay. I'm not really one to enjoy traditional penis-in-vagina sex so I put up with it when he wants it and just wait for the next time he wants to use his mouth 😝 

So, IMO, no, size doesn't matter. And even if it did there is no reason to be shamed or feel shameful about having a smaller dick. I love all men no matter what size they are! There are other ways to turn us girls on and make us cum than by just using your dick. If you can get creative with sex then you are my hero no matter what size you are!

i prefer playing than dick-in-pussy sex, it's far more fun and exciting. The size thing is more about how I look naked, I just feel a bit dropped off.

[pee01 1,469]

I never liked my size as a kid but as I got older it grew and I like it.  I have gotten lots of good comments online lots of times. Some women say my size is big some say it is an advantage .

I have never measured my penis size.  I would say I have a think wide penis but I dont think that matters. I have read and saw some videos online women dont care about the size of the penis.

I dont think size matters when it comes to penis. 

[Peewee123 1,111]

Honestly the whole size thing annoys me, it’s only men that care about the size and then I don’t understand why mean are so obsessed with other men’s penises. 🤣 

my ex husband was about 8” long and 6.5” girth when erect, he was pretty big when flaccid too. It hurt, sex was painful and not enjoyable for me. I grinned and beared it for his pleasure but was happy when it was done and we could get to playing with hands, toys and oral instead as that was what was enjoyable for me. Big girth can just be too big and cause pain with stretching and the length is pretty pointless as most vaginas are 4-5” deep, any deeper than that and you are bashing the cervix which can be painful (I know some women enjoy it but most don’t). Some vaginas are shorter and some longer but they really aren’t that deep and so a huge long penis can’t get any deeper than an average one anyway, except those men try to get deeper and cause pain. 
I had a boyfriend who had a penis that was 6” length and only 4” girth and wow, that sex was good! 
For me the absolute maximum penis I enjoy is 6” length and 5” girth, both vaginally and anally. Any bigger than that and it’s uncomfortable and tends to bottom me out and cause pain. 
 

it really is true that it’s more about what you can do with it than size though and men that are happy to use toys to help or are good with hands/tongue are far more satisfying than man who’s all about his cock!

[Peewee123 1,111]

40 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

I'm not really one to enjoy traditional penis-in-vagina sex so I put up with it when he wants it and just wait for the next time he wants to use his mouth

I’m exactly the same, but I’ve never met anyone else who openly admits it! 

[Kupar 12,314]

I'm happy with mine and K's happy too, which is the only thing that really matters. I think I am around average. Difficult to be sure really. 

[Peewee123 1,111]

3 hours ago, Loller said:

I'm not saying they are any less troublesome issues, but body or boob size doesn't have an effect on sex like penis size does. And there really isn't the type of thinking about women's breasts that bigger is more feminine but there definitely is an idea that a bigger penis is more masculine and that a small penis makes you less masculine overall or makes you "a loser" or whatever.

I agree and disagree with you. As a female that has tiny boobs I have had my fair share of comments. No boys were interested in me when at school as I didn’t have boobs and therefore wasn’t feminine, I got called a boy or Tom boy a lot and joked about if I needed a bra or was I in a training bra still or if I just needed a band aid! I do agree that you don’t need big boobs to have good sex but men often state they wouldn’t enjoy it as they like to have something bigger to grab hold of or use as a pillow so I have been told I wouldn’t be good in bed, but yes sex is mainly about a penis so I do get your point there. However, a penis can be hidden and isn’t expected to be shown. In theory only times people have to see it is when you are intimate enough to have sex and I’d hope people would be more about the relationship than penis size by then. Where boobs on display for all to see and comment on, no hiding it, have to own it day in day out! Plus as boob jobs are so easy to get, people almost expect you to get one and ask why you haven’t! 

[Kupar 12,314]

I can strongly recommend a visit to any continental European naturist beach, or an organised social naturist event, to help anyone with body confidence issues. Not only will you see a huge range of body types, but you will be among a completely accepting and non-judgemental group of people. A bit like PeeFans really 🙂

[Loller 371]

27 minutes ago, Peewee123 said:

I agree and disagree with you. As a female that has tiny boobs I have had my fair share of comments. No boys were interested in me when at school as I didn’t have boobs and therefore wasn’t feminine, I got called a boy or Tom boy a lot and joked about if I needed a bra or was I in a training bra still or if I just needed a band aid! I do agree that you don’t need big boobs to have good sex but men often state they wouldn’t enjoy it as they like to have something bigger to grab hold of or use as a pillow so I have been told I wouldn’t be good in bed, but yes sex is mainly about a penis so I do get your point there. However, a penis can be hidden and isn’t expected to be shown. In theory only times people have to see it is when you are intimate enough to have sex and I’d hope people would be more about the relationship than penis size by then. Where boobs on display for all to see and comment on, no hiding it, have to own it day in day out! Plus as boob jobs are so easy to get, people almost expect you to get one and ask why you haven’t! 

Sucks that you have experienced that. For me, breast size is not that important. I'm focused on the overall package, if a woman has an overall nice body (I don't mind if a girl if a girl is a little chubby, though), small breasts are not an issue.

About intimacy. You are correct that a woman will often see a man's penis only when they are getting intimate with each other and that they usually have some type of relationship established at that point, as in, they are dating or something like that and penis size probably doesn't matter so much in that situation. Casual sex, however, is a different story. A one night stand might end up totally ruined when the woman finds out that the guy's dick is not that impressive and she might laugh, mock him etc. But I think most women wouldn't act like that, though.

And penis size definitely has an effect on how pleasurable penetration is. A small one will probably not feel as good, but it's the same thing for a big one as it might hurt.

Edited May 12, 2022 by Loller

[Loller 371]

43 minutes ago, Peewee123 said:

Honestly the whole size thing annoys me, it’s only men that care about the size and then I don’t understand why mean are so obsessed with other men’s penises. 🤣 

my ex husband was about 8” long and 6.5” girth when erect, he was pretty big when flaccid too. It hurt, sex was painful and not enjoyable for me. I grinned and beared it for his pleasure but was happy when it was done and we could get to playing with hands, toys and oral instead as that was what was enjoyable for me. Big girth can just be too big and cause pain with stretching and the length is pretty pointless as most vaginas are 4-5” deep, any deeper than that and you are bashing the cervix which can be painful (I know some women enjoy it but most don’t). Some vaginas are shorter and some longer but they really aren’t that deep and so a huge long penis can’t get any deeper than an average one anyway, except those men try to get deeper and cause pain. 
I had a boyfriend who had a penis that was 6” length and only 4” girth and wow, that sex was good! 
For me the absolute maximum penis I enjoy is 6” length and 5” girth, both vaginally and anally. Any bigger than that and it’s uncomfortable and tends to bottom me out and cause pain. 
 

it really is true that it’s more about what you can do with it than size though and men that are happy to use toys to help or are good with hands/tongue are far more satisfying than man who’s all about his cock!

So you find the 4" girth feels good to you? I guess I have nothing to worry about, but ofc women have different size vaginas too.

It's definitely not just men who care about size. Size queens are a thing. But I agree, a man who uses his mouth/fingers and toys is a good lover. I always go down on my girlfriend before I even think about putting my penis inside and I lick her till she has an orgasm. Then she is ready for the dick and she also gives me amazing blowjobs because she knows that I will do the same for her.

Edited May 12, 2022 by Loller

[AWN_84 1,375]

Never bothered me, i have just around 6.5 inches when erect. Thank god i was never body shamed by my size and my sexual partners never complained also, so i am good on that front

[Bacardi 9,019]

1 hour ago, Peewee123 said:

I’m exactly the same, but I’ve never met anyone else who openly admits it! 

I became a little more vocal after I discovered there is a word for how I feel about sex as a whole: asexual. I tell people all the time I could go the rest of my life without sex and still be happy lol. Also, a lot of the women I've talked to both on and off the site feel the same way. I'd still argue that we are in the minority but, tbh, I've made peace with it.

[Maclir 931]

It's not the wand that makes the magic, but the magician who wields it.  I'm maybe a little shorter than average, 5 inches, but always get compliments.

[hold_on 115]

My penis is definitely on the smaller size, at around 5" erect. Flaccid, it can look pretty small, like a little stub - only 1 1/2". I was never really self-conscious about it but one time during an argument a girlfriend was like "...and you have a small penis!" I ended up kind of liking it after a while. It's kind of cute and it's definitely different.

Edited May 12, 2022 by hold_on

[LovesToWet 3,398]

It's more a body confidence thing for me. I only have an issue after being picked on about it as a child. I know how to use my cock and never had any complaints, it helps I've got a long tongue and I know how to use that lol

[LovesToWet 3,398]

Reading what sizes other men are is actually making me think differently about my size and hearing what the other women like @Peewee123 and @Bacardi are saying is also helpful. Size really doesn't matter.

Strange how we all think we have something wrong with our bodies, whether it's the size of our dicks, breasts, bottoms or bellies, it really doesn't matter. We're all lovely just as we are.

[Theo 192]

Lol, I haven't measured mine in 40 years. I guess it's more of a youth thing, you know, insecurity. Anyway, I did stroke it up just now and measured with a piece of dental floss 😁 and I find that I'm 6"L X 6"girth. 

Not sure how accurate it is. I can say though that I've never had an issue or complaint about my "size" from any of my partners in my life...

[Loller 371]

37 minutes ago, hold_on said:

My penis is definitely on the smaller size, at around 5" erect. Flaccid, it can look pretty small, like a little stub - only 1 1/2". I was never really self-conscious about it but one time during an argument a girlfriend was like "...and you have a small penis!" I ended up kind of liking it after a while. It's kind of cute and it's definitely different.

I think 5 inches is not that small. And it's pretty common to be small when flaccid, it's called being a grower. As long as you got enough length to get a good hold on it to pee standing up, it's good. Flaccid cock isn't really used for much else, haha.

It sucks that some women insult a man's size when they get into an argument or when they break up from a partner. I think those kinds of women will do it regardless of your actual size because it's such an easy target.

55 minutes ago, Maclir said:

It's not the wand that makes the magic, but the magician who wields it.  I'm maybe a little shorter than average, 5 inches, but always get compliments.

Very true!