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One of my friends was interested in the fiction that I was writing, and she soon cottoned on that it was written as my experience. I had to admit that it was mostly, and had only been a little bit enhanced. She was very inquisitive of what I did and why I did it, and was just completely accepting of it and did not judge at all. Of course she shared this information with several other friends, but in her open minded way that they had to accept that it was O.K. too. It is nice that I can wet myself openly around my friends now. They still find it a constant source of amusement - but still accept it as O.K.

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7 hours ago, Paulypeeps said:

One of my friends was interested in the fiction that I was writing, and she soon cottoned on that it was written as my experience. I had to admit that it was mostly, and had only been a little bit enhanced. She was very inquisitive of what I did and why I did it, and was just completely accepting of it and did not judge at all. Of course she shared this information with several other friends, but in her open minded way that they had to accept that it was O.K. too. It is nice that I can wet myself openly around my friends now. They still find it a constant source of amusement - but still accept it as O.K.

You have good friends Pauly

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I've been very lucky with both my previous g/fs and I think that what helped a lot is that in both cases our relationships started online and quite early on sex was often a topic of conversation.
It seems to me that pretty much everyone who enjoys sex has their kink/s and I've found this is a good way of steering the conversation when talking about what turns each of us on. So for me, it's usually worked quite well during these conversations by asking a g/f in a lighthearted way 'Come on then, what things especially turn you on? I reckon everyone has their kinks. I know i certainly do. I think it's really important to know what really turns each other on.. better than having secrets and ending up frustrated'.  This has usually led to some really open and honest conversation and made it easy for me to be totally honest. For example, my last g/f then told me that she loved to be dominated and she also loved to have her hair pulled while being taken from behind. She then admitted she'd never told anyone that before so that helped me to respond with 'Well to be honest, it quite turns me if a woman lets me watch her piss. I hope that doesn't sound too weird but i do think quite of lot of people secretly to enjoy it'.  This conversation led to us both admitting we'd be happy to do these things for each other.  Sure enough, we soon started to wanted to satisfy each other's desires and for me that meant that my g/f was always happy to piss for me in various ways because she knew it turned me on and that I would happily indulge in her kinks too. In fact it got to the stage where she admitted that she was enjoying my kink too; that was one night when things got very dirty... but thats another story! 

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1 hour ago, Mr_Slash said:

I've been very lucky with both my previous g/fs and I think that what helped a lot is that in both cases our relationships started online and quite early on sex was often a topic of conversation.
It seems to me that pretty much everyone who enjoys sex has their kink/s and I've found this is a good way of steering the conversation when talking about what turns each of us on. So for me, it's usually worked quite well during these conversations by asking a g/f in a lighthearted way 'Come on then, what things especially turn you on? I reckon everyone has their kinks. I know i certainly do. I think it's really important to know what really turns each other on.. better than having secrets and ending up frustrated'.  This has usually led to some really open and honest conversation and made it easy for me to be totally honest. For example, my last g/f then told me that she loved to be dominated and she also loved to have her hair pulled while being taken from behind. She then admitted she'd never told anyone that before so that helped me to respond with 'Well to be honest, it quite turns me if a woman lets me watch her piss. I hope that doesn't sound too weird but i do think quite of lot of people secretly to enjoy it'.  This conversation led to us both admitting we'd be happy to do these things for each other.  Sure enough, we soon started to wanted to satisfy each other's desires and for me that meant that my g/f was always happy to piss for me in various ways because she knew it turned me on and that I would happily indulge in her kinks too. In fact it got to the stage where she admitted that she was enjoying my kink too; that was one night when things got very dirty... but thats another story! 

That's a great description of how it should work - and you've been lucky 🙂  I am looking forward to hearing the other story ... if you want to tell it of course!

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My first girlfriend was into piss. She let me watch her pee and we talked about doing pee stuff, but it's hard to to get time to do any sexual activity in highschool, much less get pissed on, so watching her was the extent of it. 

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10 minutes ago, Mr_Slash said:

Well, one day she admitted to me that she'd watched some porn online involving 2 girls playing together. In some of the clips the girls the took turns at pissing and she commented "you could have loved it! We should watch some together". (Lucky me!),  So, a few nights later we planned to watch some of this stuff online. An hour or so before, my g/f (with  cheeky look on her face) started drinking quite a few glasses or water. The time came to watch the videos. We were in the living room with the laptop. The videos were good, the usual stuff. We both enjoying some mutual masturbation and my g/f kept saying "I can feel it building up. I am gonna have to pee soon." Things continued... we were both getting very turned on. Eventually she just said "ok, its not good. I cant wait any longer. I need to piss badly now. Quick! Get a bowl or something!" I rushed into the kitchen and grabbed a large glass blow and returned. My g/f (who was by now naked) sat right on the edge of the sofa. I keeled in front of her and she opened her legs really wide to give me a good view. Her shaven pussy was quite wet and swollen by now. She then reached down and gently opened her pussy lips using both hands. "Are you ready for this? I told you i'd piss for you. I hope you're going to fuck me afterwards." We both then watched as  a small trickle started and suddenly it turned into a blade of piss that arc'ed out and hit the floor. I quick held the bowl in position as it filled up. It must have lasted over 30 secs. I was, of course, in heaven. When she finished she looked at me and said "god! You know what? That *really* turned me on!  I'll do that again!!"   

Wow! That is incredibly hot - thanks so much for sharing the story. She sounds like a hell of a girl 😉

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