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When was the first time you told someone about your kink and how did it go?


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Like the title says, when was your first time opening up to someone about your pee kink? 

I've only told one person who I don't see anymore nowadays. It really never occurred to me to tell it to my previous girlfriends as I always felt like that would be way weird for them. 

The girl I did open up to was a short time friend with benefits and we were both quite tipsy by the time I told her. If anything it did make it easier to say and she didn't really seem to be bothered by it like I thought she would. 

Do you tell your partners about your kink(s) or is it more of a secret for you as well? 

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The only people who really know are the folks on here, I've always kept it a secret even from my other half.  I just feel other people wouldn't understand and even judge me as if I'm some kind of freak. So no,  I've never said anything to anyone. 

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5 minutes ago, WaterboyUk said:

The only people who really know are the folks on here, I've always kept it a secret even from my other half.  I just feel other people wouldn't understand and even judge me as if I'm some kind of freak. So no,  I've never said anything to anyone. 

That's very relatable for me. Never really dared saying it to a significant other 

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42 minutes ago, Jfhchr said:

That's very relatable for me. Never really dared saying it to a significant other 

I suspect you feel the same as me, that your other half wouldn't accept your kink. Although I have seen my wife  pee outside when we were out walking and she really needed to go. I'm convinced she wouldn't be happy with my liking for naughty pissing.

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It's not something I could discuss with my partner, but occasionally when being given a hand job, a few times I have released a small amount of piss out to see if it's a problem. It just gets ignored while for me the sight is a turn on. Trying to break the ice. 

I do have a cycling buddy who has noticed I always piss in the same location followed by the comment of,  "do you enjoy getting your cock out here or something", my simple answer is always, "just needed that". 

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My first (and last, jeeezzzzzzz, that was a mistake) gf peed in front of me regularly for years, so I tried mentioning my attraction to such to her, yet she never responded positively to it. I tried both trying to convince her to pee in public places and trying to get her to show affection to my dick while peeing, but she always seemed weirded out. Eventually I stopped trying to make any advances in that regard and we broke up shortly after, because she had found a 'better guy'....

It didn't exactly deter me from cautiously mentioning it to my next two partners (both guys), but only the second one actually seemed interested. It was an online relationship tho and we broke up before we could ever meet, so I didn't experience anything with him either.

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@TMN_Femboi damn, I'm sorry to hear about that. I feel like a kink should never be a reason for such strange behavior to a loved one, you can always talk about such things in my opinion. I guess reactions like that are the reason I've never really talked about it before. You might know someone for years but you can never tell how someone might respond to a pee kink. I actually had an ex who used to pee a lot in public as well but I never dared telling her either way. 

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I’ve never told anyone until I joined here last year. To be honest I dont think i realised it was a thing, I had an urge to pee myself, googled something, found this site and have learnt a lot since! It explains a lot. 
however my ex watched a lot of porn and liked experimenting and he asked for a golden shower and to experiment with them a bit. So I have peed in front of hun, peed on him in the shower a couple of times, peed while he had his hand between my legs and he felt me up, and peed during sex a few times. But he thought that was all for him 😉

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4 minutes ago, DoctorDoctor said:

Did you tell him that you enjoyed it?  Or initiate any pee fun with him, or was it only at his request.  Maybe he thought you weren't into it.

Only at his request but I never put up a fight. Actually think I might have let out some spurts of pee during sex without him asking as I did enjoy it, he never mentioned it! 

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1 minute ago, Peewee123 said:

Only at his request but I never put up a fight. Actually think I might have let out some spurts of pee during sex without him asking as I did enjoy it, he never mentioned it! 

Wow, if I could only be so lucky!  I would surely have initiated a conversation to dig a little deeper and let them know I enjoyed the spurts and activities, if I had a partner who showed any interest.  Sounds like you gave a lot of subtle hints to him.

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2 minutes ago, DoctorDoctor said:

Wow, if I could only be so lucky!  I would surely have initiated a conversation to dig a little deeper and let them know I enjoyed the spurts and activities, if I had a partner who showed any interest.  Sounds like you gave a lot of subtle hints to him.

As I said I’m not sure I knew it was a kink or that I enjoyed it at the time. I think I would do it a lot more now or push for more or show my enjoyment more but at the time I was pretty shy so did what he asked without complaining but didn’t push it too much. But looking back I think you’re right that it was quite obvious. 

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28 minutes ago, Bacardi said:

The first and last person I ever told was my ex boyfriend straight out of high school and it was the most miserable experience of my life. It was my first time exploring sex and obviously pee is my kink and I thought I could trust him with it. He took it and made it into a joke. He laughed at me for weeks and asked if wetting my pants as a kid is what brought it on. I was so hurt and didn't think about pee in a sexual wah for years after it.

This is why I don't want to tell my partner. We're not having a good time at the mo so don't really want them to shame me as well. Hope you're ok now hun

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5 hours ago, Peewee123 said:

I’ve never told anyone until I joined here last year. To be honest I dont think i realised it was a thing, I had an urge to pee myself, googled something, found this site and have learnt a lot since! It explains a lot.  😉

Same here, this site has been a great help with understanding what I enjoy

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1 hour ago, Bacardi said:

The first and last person I ever told was my ex boyfriend straight out of high school and it was the most miserable experience of my life. It was my first time exploring sex and obviously pee is my kink and I thought I could trust him with it. He took it and made it into a joke. He laughed at me for weeks and asked if wetting my pants as a kid is what brought it on. I was so hurt and didn't think about pee in a sexual wah for years after it.

Some people, regardless of age can be so cruel and for that reason I keep my kink to myself. I  feel for you,  it must have been so humiliating for you and of course that feeling of the loss of trust in someone you cared for. Like so many of us, particularly those of us here you learned from your mistake and it's made you a stronger person.

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11 hours ago, Jfhchr said:

@JDGI've been in multiple situations with my ex where I could've been in that same boat too. Im glad to hear you've found a way to talk it through and come to an understanding though! 

 

We also just some other naughty things in that sea, so me still being a little horny from that definately helped to blurt this out 😇

But yeah, I'm happy, even though not much has changed as she peed outside a lot before I told her as well.

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