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14 minutes ago, Kupar said:

Good points. one question though, about the etiquette of following on this site. Follow without asking? Ask (in PM or if not allowed, then as a post on a profile)?

Following a member basically just means that you get notifications when they post content etc. It’s maybe different to other sites / social media where following is more limited to friend requests with people you specifically know.

So there’s no real etiquette that says you should ask to do so. (In your profile you can choose whether others can follow you or not)  


Similarly I’ve got no issue with people messaging for such reasons - it’s really just where people feel they ‘have to’ DM in private. 

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Just now, dodges said:

LOL!  Then I'll lose LOTS OF SLEEP while I just switch VPN to another Ip address/email address.  Let's have fun and piss without wiping it!

Fine, have it your way. 

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23 hours ago, Eliminature said:

Sorry, but that's more funny than anything! 😂

I can't thank you mods enough for being friendly and supportive, though. 👍🏻

Yes well done guys and ladies, would I want to be a mod? No but thank you for giving up your time and patience to keep an eye on things

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  • 5 months later...

I'd like to just add on to the complaint here with one other thing:

 

The people who just talk about wanting something done to them in places like Video threads just derail the thread for several days, preventing any good content from getting to us.

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4 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Well - it's about two years since I created this post - and I have to say now, 'Guys - I think we need to have a serious man to man talk again. At least some of us'.

The thing is, unfortunately that's literally what some of the ladies of the forum are asking for.  And frankly I fully see their point.   Just a few of you have got a few people pissed off to the point of leaving our community. And that is frankly, completely unacceptable.

At a rough guess, the regular users of this site are in the hundreds of people.  Not a massive amount, and we know that of those regular users, those who actually actively contribute is in the small numbers.  Another thing we know is that ladies make up about 1 in 5 of the membership.  Any way you look at it makes the ladies of this community a rare commodity.

Now the problem is, that given that very small group of ladies, there is also a small subset of guys here who are making arses of themselves and are literally scaring the ladies away.  Making them reluctant to post. Making them unwilling to visit the site.  Causing them to leave.  And that is not acceptable. Period. Full stop. The end.   

 

You see - the vast majority of these ladies were born with a uterus and vagina, with labia and clitoris, and a urethra just below it. They've had twenty, thirty, forty or however many years experience filling a bladder and then expelling that bladder through that urethra.  Years of experience of knowing what it feels like, how it works and all those things.

So guys.  Just a couple of you guys.  The ladies of this forum DO NOT need you as a man explaining why their stream is messy, straight, hissy, long, short.  They certainly do not need us deciding if they're skinny or fat based on how they describe themselves.  I'm going to hazard a guess none of us have a doctorate in gynaecology or any other branch of medicine.  So why try and talk down to a member like they don't know their own body.  That's how it is coming across.  That is real. 

And whilst I'm on a rant - not everybody is obsessed with pissing into a measuring jug.  I'd guess there may be some of our lady members who never really watch themselves actually pee, let alone measure.  So why do we have to have these endless questions over the volume?  What makes you think people enjoy answering over, and over and over again?

Now - I've only tackled really two issues here.  I haven't mentioned the unsolicited pictures.  The guys sending propositions.  The requests to send pictures back. Again I'm probably only really addressing a very small couple of people there too.

 

Start treating ALL the members of this site with some respect.  I'm not singling out a gender group there - because we're all members of this community.  So stop treating people like they need basic biology explaining.  Especially when you've learned it all watching porn.

Stop assuming everyone has the same singular obsessions as yourself.   Start understanding there are a million and one different subtleties that people enjoy and reasons they're here.  Respect and enjoy their contributions without turning everything into an attempt to show your superior intellect.

Understood ?

Very based statement @gldenwetgoose I agree with the things you said in this thread and like this place is a cool safe space for everyone who has a piss kink and the last thing we need is creepy men sending unsolicited dick pics to random women on this site and other unwanted weird stuff. 
 

I sometimes worry that I might say something weird in the threads but idk perhaps that’s just my brain overthinking. 
 

 

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I’ve been on this site for a long time, off and on. I lurked here for a while, then had to register in about 2017. I don’t have time to post and read actively, but I check in from time to time. It’s a great community. 
 

I’ve seen a few things. I always conduct myself by “house rules” no matter which site I’m on. I may ask a woman who posts a picture or video how desperate she was, but leave it at that. I’ve followed a few, but most have left. 
 

I had a few times I commented on a video and had some guy ping me over DM about where to find the full video. I don’t know, and he has access to the same tools I do, so good luck. I rarely heard again, so I assume the poster got banned. 
 

I appreciate this community when I’m able to participate. Thanks you, mods, for your hard work. 

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5 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Well - it's about two years since I created this post - and I have to say now, 'Guys - I think we need to have a serious man to man talk again. At least some of us'.... 

 

Thank you... 

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+1 on this sentiment. Sorry to hear it's been happening. Even as a guy, I've had rude, pushy, boundary insensitive dbags' harrassment, as well as phishers and spammers. On other sites I've relied of blocking users, but I haven't notices (yet) that on this site... but I've no problem with reporting users.

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27 minutes ago, Styx said:

+1 on this sentiment. Sorry to hear it's been happening. Even as a guy, I've had rude, pushy, boundary insensitive dbags' harrassment, as well as phishers and spammers. On other sites I've relied of blocking users, but I haven't notices (yet) that on this site... but I've no problem with reporting users.

I believe it is possible to block users if you want to - wasn't sure if you knew that.

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