Sexual orientation

[gldenwetgoose 20,222]

11 hours ago, UnabashedUser said:

I'll bite-- how much further? Elaborate? LOL

Well, the most prominent time was on a night out...   Wife, myself, friend of hers and his boyfriend.   A bit of context is that the guy in question was one of those very flamboyant characters, hair like the 80's George Micheal look, sharp dresser and very effeminate mannerisms. Also tagging along was his boyfriend who we'd met a couple of times and was one of those slightly jealous possessive gay men.

We'd been to the UK seaside resort of Blackpool which is a curious mix of victorian family seaside resort, knocking shop and slum.  Entertainment for the night had been a visit to Funny Girls, a famous drag cabaret theatre for the show which was to be fair really good and we had a really good time.  Afterwards on for beers in The Flying Handbag, a well known gay pub.

Come the end of the evening, where we were facing our half hour drive home (and I was the sober driver - rule is when out with wife's friends she gets to drink and vice versa) it came to the hugs goodbye, kisses on cheeks etc.  At the crucial moment of him going in for the goodnight kiss on the cheek I turned to kiss him square on the lips....    The shock on his face was a picture, but I got a bigger hug for it. 

[Bladderlad 718]

7 hours ago, gldenwetgoose said:

Well, the most prominent time was on a night out...   Wife, myself, friend of hers and his boyfriend.   A bit of context is that the guy in question was one of those very flamboyant characters, hair like the 80's George Micheal look, sharp dresser and very effeminate mannerisms. Also tagging along was his boyfriend who we'd met a couple of times and was one of those slightly jealous possessive gay men.

We'd been to the UK seaside resort of Blackpool which is a curious mix of victorian family seaside resort, knocking shop and slum.  Entertainment for the night had been a visit to Funny Girls, a famous drag cabaret theatre for the show which was to be fair really good and we had a really good time.  Afterwards on for beers in The Flying Handbag, a well known gay pub.

Come the end of the evening, where we were facing our half hour drive home (and I was the sober driver - rule is when out with wife's friends she gets to drink and vice versa) it came to the hugs goodbye, kisses on cheeks etc.  At the crucial moment of him going in for the goodnight kiss on the cheek I turned to kiss him square on the lips....    The shock on his face was a picture, but I got a bigger hug for it. 

Love your description of Blackpool!! 😂

[gldenwetgoose 20,222]

22 minutes ago, Bladderlad said:

Love your description of Blackpool!! 😂

I am doing the place something of a dis-service, and a bit unfair of me.  It is one of those places that many many people hold a fondness and great memories of, a place with many great residents.  Unfortunately it does have its share of social problems - partly some people and their social habits and to a certain extent some of the visitors it attracts. 

[Bladderlad 718]

2 minutes ago, gldenwetgoose said:

I am doing the place something of a dis-service, and a bit unfair of me.  It is one of those places that many many people hold a fondness and great memories of, a place with many great residents.  Unfortunately it does have its share of social problems - partly some people and their social habits and to a certain extent some of the visitors it attracts. 

It does what is says on the tin, lol, have always enjoyed  the odd weekend there but it definetely has a grim underbelly!! 

[amack 509]

Bi Male who took far too long to admit to himself and so wasted so many opportunities! 
 

I’m attracted sexually to some men, they have to be of a fairly specific type (fit but not big and muscly, nice eyes and have to have a nice big cock) but don’t have much experience with them (so far). Can’t imagine ever having a romantic relationship with a guy but certainly want more sex, whether as part of a mixed sex group or m2m. Luckily my wife is very turned on by the notion so it’s likely we’ll have lots of mmf or mmff fun in future. 

[NortheastPeeFan 345]

On 7/7/2020 at 4:21 PM, NortheastPeeFan said:

My sexuality is complicated, but bi male is the term that I am currently going with as I think it sums me up the best.  I am attracted to men romantically and sexually.  I am not attracted to women romantically, but I am attracted to them sexually.  I am more attracted to men than women.  I used to consider myself gay, and sometimes still feel like I am, but as I developed a sexual interest in women, gay didn't seem to fit anymore.

Since that post, I have gone back to identifying as gay and if I were to take the poll today, I would choose gay male.  I was going through a tumultuous time where I was questioning my sexuality again and mistakenly thought I was bi because of my porn habits, but in the end I realized I wasn’t really bi.

[gldenwetgoose 20,222]

9 minutes ago, NortheastPeeFan said:

Since that post, I have gone back to identifying as gay and if I were to take the poll today, I would choose gay male.  I was going through a tumultuous time where I was questioning my sexuality again and mistakenly thought I was bi because of my porn habits, but in the end I realized I wasn’t really bi.

Sounds like maybe you’ve gone through a lot of soul searching to end up where you are - but irrespective, we just accept you as YOU and as one of us. We stand alongside you. 

[Bacardi 9,054]

Bi female. I love men and women lol.