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For years I have loved a mutual masturbation session with a fem, as a pleasant alternative to the usual sex.

It is fantastic thrill trip to watch a girl masturbate, while she watches you.

Does any one else enjoy that?

I have lately begun thinking lately, how fantastic it would be to enjoy this thrill in the company of others, equal numbers of each sexes. How wonderful it would be to wank in a room of like minded people all doing it together, and watching each other.

I am sure such mutual masturbation groups must exist, but I have no idea where to look to find one. I would sure love to find a group in London, or the South East.

Anyone else got any thoughts on this topic?

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Sorry folks, I realise I have posted this in the wrong section!!

I have sent a message to admin asking them to move it to the correct place, if that's possible, or delete it completely, so I can repost in the correct box.

Hey, no worries at all, very easy mistake to make. Feel free to use the 'report' button if you ever want a post moved/edited/deleted. :)

As for mutual masturbation, I'm not sure if I'd find it odd in a large group, but with just me and another girl I definitely find it hot.

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Kevin, what you say is absolutely spot on, but what I was meaning specifically is the pure exhibitionist act of both the girl and yourself. You are in front of her wanking like crazy for her to watch every detail, while your eyes are glued to everything she is doing to herself. She in turn is wanking hard while watching your cock. Just pure exhibitionism for each other. Usually makes each other wank harder than ever with the excitement.

One memorable occasional a woman wanked for me and was so turned on watching me, it made me cum like mad, great jets of the stuff shooting out. She saw this and cried out 'look at all that fucking stuff!' Next second she was jerking in her own fantastic strong climax.

Simple pleasure really, but so rewarding for pure thrills.

Admin I take your point but I still think it would be fantastic with others, as long as they are mixed sexes. I have heard of a bunch of guys getting together for a sort of wank in, or wank fest, perhaps while watching porn together, and that doesn't appeal to me at all.

I have certainly been party to masturbation watching couples on Agde swingers beach fucking, and other things! with lots of other guys doing the same. No probs with that. You just concentrate on what you are doing and let others do what they want.

Being 100% straight I did used to have a bit of a prob with the gays who are watching the guys rather than the show, but after a while even that doesn't bother me now, if they want to watch and it turns them on, what the fuck! I don't care.

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One of the things I like to do with a willing lady is to sit opposite each other, on the floor or bed or whatever, naked legs bent and apart with feet near to each other and both watch each other masturbate. I have done this a couple of times and it is very horny for both. A game to play is to masturbate but not allowed to orgasm but jus keep on the edge for as long as possible. Then on or other of you gives the cum signal and you both orgasm at the same time. Awesome!

As to the point about a group masturbation session, I am on a swinger site and there are often threads on the forum with people trying to organise such sessions. Loads of people, mainly guys but some women, say they want to attend but when it comes to it most back out. The other problem is finding someone to accommodate as most don't want to. I for one would love to attend one.

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Jesse more or less exactly what I was talking about, Just the pleasure of closely and intimately, concentrating on watching each other masturbate.

I also just joined a swingers site, with the sole intention of finding fun things like that going on in my area S.London/Surrey. Also daytime Dogging places. Dogging at night has so many opportunities but in the daytime, just seems to be so hard to find!! It must go on though, if one could only find out where.

I would love to find a group like you mention, or someone trying to organise one in my part of the world. The swingers site I joined, doesn't seem to have any mention of group masturbation, None that I have found so far anyway!

Another thing that, I hoped to get from a swingers site was this. I am skilled, as a hobby, and for my wife's pleasures, in the rather involved art of Japanese Yoni massage. This is totally for the female rather than the male, who is supposed to get nothing out of it!

Ladies visit Special massage parlours, or clinics, to enjoy Yoni massage, which takes around 2-3 hours, when done correctly from start to finish, for which they pay as much as £200 a time.

I got interested in this, as I said, for my wife's pleasure (which I might add, she absolutely loves) and then studied it, and learned the art properly.

As I said before the guy supposedly gets nothing out of it, but from my own point of view, I find it hugely rewarding, and exciting to stimulate a woman to that intense degree, and the resulting climax/s can be quite mind blowing.

My thinking is to expand my contacts of fems that would like to enjoy this, for free!! I would obviously have a hard time introducing this into normal conversation with women, and friends, especially as my wife wouldn't exactly be over the moon to hear me invite our friend to participate. (we are not swingers!)

However, it does seem likely that swingers, with their more open attitude to matters sexual, might well be interested in participating! Hense joined a swingers site.

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Yes i would like to do that,join in a group of men and women who were all wanking etc.No sex would be the rule,or it would just become a gang-bang.To make it work everyone would have to be more or less naked,maybe the girls could wear stockings etc.If anyone knows where they do these please post.Or a group peeing session.

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You say better if every one was more or less naked, and it certainly would be good, but imagine if the girls had their skirts pushed up and their knickers pulled over, especially with nylons and suspenders!, or even just dressed in their panties, pulled over, with their tits out over their bras. Just a thought, as a delicious alternative.

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I like the idea, for a time I attended a swingers club near Heathrow and enjoyed seeing people masterbating as well as the sex.

Myself, I think every partner and I have at some point enjoyed mutual sessions and I've also met a man who I enjoyed masterbating with (plus a bit of oral). I'm very open with that and enjoy playing with other men like this.

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I have only had a few mutual masturbation experiences but have enjoyed it and found it to be very arousing.

Watching a woman masturbate has always been my #1 turn on. Just something so intimate and sensual about it really does it for me.

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I have only had a few mutual masturbation experiences but have enjoyed it and found it to be very arousing.

Watching a woman masturbate has always been my #1 turn on. Just something so intimate and sensual about it really does it for me.

I couldn't agree more. It's a mind blowing experience watching a girl masturbate, especially if she ends with a strong genuine climax. I love it.

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Hmmm, my wife and gf love doing this, but usually I just watch, it does not take long for one of them to cave in and "want something in me".

This in itself is their question, how would you control it?

Is mutual consent to no sex, no touching enough?

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If the situation was room full of strangers,men and women,who had agreed to take part in a "wankathon",as it were,there would have to be strict rules about no shagging.Otherwise the whole point of a room of men and women would soon become a gang bang.I would like it,that all were sat around,masturbating.Women could use "rabbit thingys" perhaps.Maybe people of both sexes could give a hand to others,but that would be it.I think that would be hugely erotic.

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If the situation was room full of strangers,men and women,who had agreed to take part in a "wankathon",as it were,there would have to be strict rules about no shagging.Otherwise the whole point of a room of men and women would soon become a gang bang.I would like it,that all were sat around,masturbating.Women could use "rabbit thingys" perhaps.Maybe people of both sexes could give a hand to others,but that would be it.I think that would be hugely erotic.

The ones I have seen advertised do have strict rules about no actual sex, the aim is to be in a sexually charged atmosphere but for masturbation only. It is more likely that it will be mixed rather than just a load of blokes wanking if the women feel they are able to attend without feeling they may have to do anything they feel uncomfortable with. It would kind of spoil things if people just paired off and vanished, or as fannywatcher said, it becomes a gang bang. If you want a gang bang then go to one, if you want group masturbation that is very different.

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The ones I have seen advertised do have strict rules about no actual sex, the aim is to be in a sexually charged atmosphere but for masturbation only. It is more likely that it will be mixed rather than just a load of blokes wanking if the women feel they are able to attend without feeling they may have to do anything they feel uncomfortable with. It would kind of spoil things if people just paired off and vanished, or as fannywatcher said, it becomes a gang bang. If you want a gang bang then go to one, if you want group masturbation that is very different.

My point exactly.What could be more erotic than a group of strangers,men and women,who have come together,to masturbate in a room full of strangers?No names,no lies,just sexual enjoyment.

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