Blackinksoul30 1,239 Posted May 11, 2018 Share Posted May 11, 2018 (warning sensitive topic) Last year i bought two adorable baby dolls from the toy store and they have really been life changing for me. Me and hubby a few years ago decided on not having kids/nor adoption. and i felt..incomplete..like something was missing. Having these dolls (just got a 3rd one a few days ago. final one most likely) Caring for them. holding them. really helps fill that void of my motherly instincts. My mom adores the dolls. She knows they make me happy. My hubby is understanding of them. I don't really take them out in public with me unless for a car ride. I have adorable baby clothes for them. I no longer get upset over seeing real babies. nor do i say every few weeks 'i wish i had a baby' This has helped me so much and i love them. 3 Quote Link to post
spywareonya 37,912 Posted May 11, 2018 Share Posted May 11, 2018 24 minutes ago, Blackinksoul30 said: (warning sensitive topic) Last year i bought two adorable baby dolls from the toy store and they have really been life changing for me. Me and hubby a few years ago decided on not having kids/nor adoption. and i felt..incomplete..like something was missing. Having these dolls (just got a 3rd one a few days ago. final one most likely) Caring for them. holding them. really helps fill that void of my motherly instincts. My mom adores the dolls. She knows they make me happy. My hubby is understanding of them. I don't really take them out in public with me unless for a car ride. I have adorable baby clothes for them. I no longer get upset over seeing real babies. nor do i say every few weeks 'i wish i had a baby' This has helped me so much and i love them. nobody unless a woman without childred can understand the subtleness of these things or better said, if someone exists that could while being not a woman without children, are people on this forum utter respect for you Alice 1 1 Quote Link to post
Blackinksoul30 1,239 Posted May 11, 2018 Author Share Posted May 11, 2018 two of the dolls use the same baby doll crib that i've had since i was 4 years old. My grandpa put it together for me. 80's kid toy being put to good use. So glad i kept it. The nice thing about baby dolls..is if i'm not feeling well enough to care for them one day, i feel okay knowing that they stay in the crib all day. Couldn't do that with a real baby. 2 Quote Link to post
spywareonya 37,912 Posted May 11, 2018 Share Posted May 11, 2018 7 minutes ago, Blackinksoul30 said: two of the dolls use the same baby doll crib that i've had since i was 4 years old. My grandpa put it together for me. 80's kid toy being put to good use. So glad i kept it. The nice thing about baby dolls..is if i'm not feeling well enough to care for them one day, i feel okay knowing that they stay in the crib all day. Couldn't do that with a real baby. they help you know yourself, respectfully of your limits (everybody has their own) 1 Quote Link to post
Blackinksoul30 1,239 Posted May 12, 2018 Author Share Posted May 12, 2018 Left to right Alice, Jack and Emily. 🙂 3 Quote Link to post
spywareonya 37,912 Posted May 16, 2018 Share Posted May 16, 2018 On 5/12/2018 at 8:29 PM, Blackinksoul30 said: Left to right Alice, Jack and Emily. 🙂 holy shit this is intimate I would have not had the guts to post it, thank you... 3 Quote Link to post
Blackinksoul30 1,239 Posted September 12, 2018 Author Share Posted September 12, 2018 I wanted to post an update. I just celebrated 1 of the baby dolls first birthday. And i am getting a toddler doll for Christmas this year. I can not wait. She'll be my one and only toddler doll. 1 1 Quote Link to post
spywareonya 37,912 Posted September 12, 2018 Share Posted September 12, 2018 4 minutes ago, Blackinksoul30 said: I wanted to post an update. I just celebrated 1 of the baby dolls first birthday. And i am getting a toddler doll for Christmas this year. I can not wait. She'll be my one and only toddler doll. She? 1 1 Quote Link to post
Blackinksoul30 1,239 Posted September 12, 2018 Author Share Posted September 12, 2018 Yes i am getting a girl toddler doll for Christmas. 🙂 I've already seen what she looks like since my hubby ordered her for me. 2 Quote Link to post
spywareonya 37,912 Posted September 13, 2018 Share Posted September 13, 2018 13 hours ago, Blackinksoul30 said: Yes i am getting a girl toddler doll for Christmas. 🙂 I've already seen what she looks like since my hubby ordered her for me. Dunno why I expected a boy Maybe I projected something onto the tought of a person that age Unconscious is quite… unconscious! 1 1 Quote Link to post
Blackinksoul30 1,239 Posted November 4, 2018 Author Share Posted November 4, 2018 I finally received my comfort therapy toddler doll. I adore her. She's so precious!!! 🙂 1 Quote Link to post
Blackinksoul30 1,239 Posted January 6, 2019 Author Share Posted January 6, 2019 I might be getting 1 more therapy doll for Easter. It's a boy doll. I've convinced my hubby to let me get it. Quote Link to post
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.