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Curious to know whether you guys have any secret rituals for a successful 'cum'. Just had an email from a guy who likes to force his penis into a narrow vase, and has indicated that his orgasm is more intense through the act of restraint. Any similar tales or experiences?

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I think it varies on stimulation and time, I.e when you last ejaculate.

If I've not come for a day or two, the quatity and force when I do come is always greater, resulting in bigger squirts and generally feeling more intense than if I've had a day where I've wanked or had sex already.

As for techniques not really, I use my hand and work the length of my shaft, I vary speed and grip to get it right but I do sometimes squeeze it at the point of no return as it does cause a more forceful release. I'm shot cum up as far as my chest doing that.

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Curious to know whether you guys have any secret rituals for a successful 'cum'. Just had an email from a guy who likes to force his penis into a narrow vase, and has indicated that his orgasm is more intense through the act of restraint. Any similar tales or experiences?

I would hope hes not actually physically hurting himself.The penis is actually quite a delicate organ,he could be damaging himself.I just get horny,grab hold and let fly!Although as Kevin alludes to,its nice for a guy if he has obtained some panties from some girl,it makes it more sensual.Sally,do women masturbate whilst looking at porn,in the way we guys do?

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I would hope hes not actually physically hurting himself.The penis is actually quite a delicate organ,he could be damaging himself.I just get horny,grab hold and let fly!Although as Kevin alludes to,its nice for a guy if he has obtained some panties from some girl,it makes it more sensual.Sally,do women masturbate whilst looking at porn,in the way we guys do?

In my own experience, and within my immediate peer group, I get the feeling that women like to read horny books, so literature is a big turn on, rather than 'images'. I remember my tutor giving me 'Perfume' by Patrick Suskind, and I wondered whether his motives were honourable. I did an English Literature degree at University and hence was exposed to many erotic books. Having said that, it depends on my mood, time, place, cultural situations etc. I can be turned on by more subtle forms of erotica...(I love the drawings and artwork posted on here) to the more extremes...(and I have to say that I love how the boundaries can be explored...within what I regard as any legal restrictions) Provided it is done with and by consenting adults. I am not turned on by the sanitised porn that is overly professional...women who have had surgery, and have spray on tans etc...I prefer to see something natural, amateur, self filmed and genuinely erotic and kinky...and I do have a very strong erotic imagination that swings both ways, ie males and females.

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I'm very much with you on the porn front, I like to see natural and well made stuff over ugly big dick ramming suzie spraytan and silicone in some vile contrived set up.

I've often found porn gets me going and watching, but that I often find myself thinking more about performing the act on somebody rather than what is going on the screen.

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I'm very much with you on the porn front, I like to see natural and well made stuff over ugly big dick ramming suzie spraytan and silicone in some vile contrived set up.

I've often found porn gets me going and watching, but that I often find myself thinking more about performing the act on somebody rather than what is going on the screen.

"Suzie Spraytan" made me laugh. I'm the same when it comes to porn, I prefer the more romantic and passionate side of things rather than a guy just having his way with a girl. I was thinking about it last night actually, it's funny how much difference something as simple as a kiss can make. A girl was on top kissing him and clearly enjoying it more than just a fuck.

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Actually if you want to know what got me all hot and wet...just this minute, was the climax to this clip, sent by a friend on XHamster. I know that this is semi-professional, but it's the confined space of the car, the natural looking girl and I have to say a big brute of a man! I actually searched for more dogging type clips...or outdoor exhibitionism, and found a treasure chest of self-made clips...that's what ultimately turns me on, and can prompt masturbation, unfortunately I have been able to stimulate myself only marginally due to where I am at this moment in time...I'd love to share it with you!

http://xhamster.com/movies/3788565/dogging_teen_in_car_with_a_stranger_older_men.html

Sally XX

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Very nice clip, it's professional but I think it's a believable setting, believable actors and not polished. I find a lot of the US stuff is very much unnatural and why do they have to have a running commentary.

He has a nice thick member (looks a bit like mine lol) and I love the shot from behind showing his balls and cock penetration her vagina. Very hot.

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Personally for me there are two different situations. One I just want to get off and its late before bed, those are usually just quick stroke until I cum.

But the much more enjoyable times are when I have the time to take the time to really enjoy it. Masturbation has always been a big part of my life, even when I was married I always tried to take time for it and myself. Now that I am divorced and I have chosen to not remarry as of yet masturbation is an even bigger part of my life so if I can take the time and really get into it and enjoy I prefer to.

Usually its a matter of watching some videos, hopefully not the over produced kind as some have stated here. Take my time over hours and edge up to it and build up to it.

I have found a vibrator against my cock has a very good effect that doesnt build too fast and doesnt push me over the edge when I dont want it to but makes for a very hard cock in the end :)

Masturbation in general and watching or talking to a woman about her masturbating are huge turn ons here.

thanks for asking the question. I think it is a very interesting thread.

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It seems as i thought,women are more aroused by the "circumstances" of sexy time,as opposed to the kind of body parts on view,that we guys tend to like.Be honest guys,how often have you fast forwarded a porno,to get to the part where the girls knickers come off,as even porno films can be a bit wordy?Or is that just me?(again:laugh:).But also discussing these quite down and dirty issues with our lovely ladies,is also quite stimulating.

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Actually if you want to know what got me all hot and wet...just this minute, was the climax to this clip, sent by a friend on XHamster. I know that this is semi-professional, but it's the confined space of the car, the natural looking girl and I have to say a big brute of a man! I actually searched for more dogging type clips...or outdoor exhibitionism, and found a treasure chest of self-made clips...that's what ultimately turns me on, and can prompt masturbation, unfortunately I have been able to stimulate myself only marginally due to where I am at this moment in time...I'd love to share it with you!

http://xhamster.com/movies/3788565/dogging_teen_in_car_with_a_stranger_older_men.html

Sally XX

Very nice!It sure got me all hot and wet too,but in a guy kind of way...:wink:Thanks for sharing!XXX

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Once bought a "Fleshlight",a recreation of the very sexy Tera Patricks' vagina.(other porn stars also available)But i didnt really enjoy using it.Its just a piece of rubbery stuff,with a hole in it.Youve to warm it up etc,so i gave it up.For the £60 i paid for it,could have bought 2 or 3 dvds of her,or paid for a good session with an "escort".

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Curious to know whether you guys have any secret rituals for a successful 'cum'. Just had an email from a guy who likes to force his penis into a narrow vase, and has indicated that his orgasm is more intense through the act of restraint. Any similar tales or experiences?

Hi Sally, here is my contribution.

I love the ladies and all the nice fun we can both have together although I still like to masturbate regularly.

I enjoy starting with a simple thumb on the top and 2 fingers underneath and enjoy starting with a small soft cock. I love to see it getting bigger and the bigger it gets it feels different at each stage.

When fully erect, it again feels different to when I started, this is when the feeling is the nicest. It's still amazing to start off with such a small soft cock to watch it grow into a magnificent big and hard pleasure tool. The soft cock can be decieving, my cock at the soft stage is very small but it grows long and thick, it has been commented on by some ladies where there have been comments like "where did that come from". On the opposite side I know some big soft cocks don't get any bigger they just get hard.

I sometimes wank slow sometimes fast. Sometimes it's a quickie and other times I try to make it last and long as possible before I cum and when I go for the lasting as long as possible it's an amazing orgasm and the distance of shooting the cum be be 3 to 4 feet, even further in my younger days.

I use a fleshlight occasionally and with practice and different techniques's (warming it up in hot water and loads of hot lubricant warmed in the same water is wonderful, and the new screw on attachment so it sticks to a wall) it's an awsome feeling when you are fucking it. Try it guys you will love it.

I hope that helps Sally? now how about you, and how do you like to masturbate?

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Usually starts with me running my wife's black stocking on my cock when I am hard stretch the stockings over my penis feel the stretched nylon feel like when a girl has them on her thighs. ..i am pre cum now just thinking about it :)

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Oops! I forgot to answer the question! I usually have to wait til I'm alone in the house or very late at night. After watching porn on the interwebs for a bit I'm ready. When I was young, just the pressure against my underwear would get me close, but these days it takes a while. I had my prostate removed a couple of years ago, so there are some differences, but it still works;-)

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Has any man / woman masturbated while driving their car .Even in heavy traffic . That of driving at night down a lonely highway ?

In enjoying some self pleasuring at times . Which I have done many of times. In enjoying some fun and some relielf on stroking off my cock while I'm driving a long . Mind you . As my orgasm was building . Then peaked in sweeping over me . I would pull over to the side of the road to have my climax. Should it be a strong one. Not wishing to get into an accident . Which would be embarrassing to admit on what I was doing at the point of causing one . Due to my attention to stroking my cock anf not watching the road very well . :redface:

Getting aroused by thinking on whether or not other driver's around me in traffuc . Should there be some . See what I'm doing with my cock out of my pants and stroking on it till I had a wonderful orgasm and shot my load of cum . Into a napkin I had taken out of the glove compartment beforehand . In helping me clean up after wards :wink: :wink: :woot:

I wonder how many women and men might enjoy doing this ?

Sally , have you ever tried this before ?

Kevin

I once tugged off in a lay-by after leaving a girl id been with,but she wasnt up for sex,we'd kissed and cuddled etc,but she made me drive home.Best thing maybe..But omg i was SO hard,i could hardly sit down to drive,i found a Bus pull-in,about 5 mins away,and parked up,and did what a man has to do.Luckily there was no-one waiting at the Bus stop!There were other cars driving past,i hope they didnt see me,it didnt take too long!(in case youre wondering,yes,i eventually banged this girl!:thumbsup:)

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